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This is a great article! So true! I will try to change a few things here and there so that I have better sex with my hubby. Thank you!

I want to get a anal plug that will stay in place while my hubby penetrates me, but i do not want it to be too big or uncomfortable to get in the way. Has anyone tried an anal plug of this sort that can work for me? Also, what do you people use for anal lube???? I have tried "Sensual Strawberry Astroglide" and "Anal Lube" and they both burn my ASS!!! I hear people are supposed to enjoy anal sex, but these anal lubricants burn! Has anyone had this problem and what other anal lube can I try that wont burn? I love anal penetration but I cannot enjoy because of the burning sensation of the lubes. Please help the burning stop...

"Can someone please tell me and my husband thats ok to have toys and that we BOTH can play with it. Some helpful tips on playing together would be gret too!!" No way in hell are toys replacements! It is not possible, plus they do not even feel like the real thing. My husband was really worried when I wanted to get a dildo because he thought i was going to like it better. Once we recieved it, he saw that it was a turn on for him and me and that I did not like it better than him. We started off using it only once in a great while and him using it on my. He saw that this was great and would get me in the mood...which he loved so he decided that he wanted me to buy more toys. He knows now that they are no competition to his shaft and only bring more spice and exceitment to our sex life. He does not want any toys because he says that all he wants and turns him on is seeing me turned on. Dionne's husband, you simply need to relax and take the toy and play with your wife. You will see that it will turn you on and you will give you sex life an enhancement.

What does G-Spot stand for and where is it?

"As long as he doesn't want to do anything with his brother!" He definitely does not want to do anything with his brother. It simply turns him on the fantasy of him watching me with another man and them him joining but, only pleasing me. I think this fantasy started when I told him I was tired of the same fantasy he wanted to talk about every single time we did it, which is me telling him of my past lovers and how they did me, that is all he wants to talk about and it bores me, plus I do not like talk about my past sex experiences with other men. At first, it was exciting but then I began to think that he was fantasying about the past woman he has been with or about two woman at the same, which he tells me no way in hell and that I am the best he has ever had and the only one he desires. I do believe him, but I guess that fantasy has became into a different fantasy, which is my fantasy. I guess if i continue fantasying this while i do it with my hubby and use toys I will soon get bored and get over it. Thank you both for the advice.

I don't know what to do! About three weeks ago my husband and I were having sex(we were also wasted) and suddenly he kept asking me if I wanted two cocks in me. It took me awhile to clearly say yes (in the heat of the moment) that I did. So he we went on fantasizing about having another man join us and we were practically arguing (about who was going to be the other man) while we kept doing it and he said he would do it with someone he trusts. He kept asking me who I had in mind and I said I did not know and finally I told him to say a name so that I can cum and he said....his brother! Shockingly, I was thinking of the same person and I really turned me on and came instantly! It was the best sex we had ever had!!! We did not talk about it until the next day. He told me that it was okay to fantasize about it but he told me we would not take it that far and actually do it, and I said "oh, I know, it is just a onetime fantasy". However, I cannot stop thinking about it. Every time we have sex, I fantasize about him and his brother fucking me at the same time! I do not even like his brother! But I can’t stop picturing both of them. How can I stop this fantasy? What do I do? Is this even normal??? Help!