stagnuts

Ok I am a 28 y/o male, and speaking from my mind. Your husband is sharing one of his fantasies with you. So that right there is a big step. For him to tell you this should make you feel confident that he is not going outside of the marriage. But me and the wife have talked about bringing in a third person in the past. Has not happened cause of a couple reason. She is not comfortable with the idea of having a female and myself do things. And I told her that is really is not about the female pleasing me but more about me watching the female please her. "Total turn on for me" And she was ok with that. And also she is not confident with her own body. We have two kids and she hasn't lost all the baby weight and she thinks she is fat. I think she looks beautiful and I wouldn't change anything about her. And last picking the right person would be the hard step. Someone that she would be comfortable with. So there are alot of things to think about. Like everyone has said it is about weather or not you are comfortable with the idea. Don't do it if your not, cause it will not end good. Good luck and if you do decide to have fun with it, you never know you may enjoy it more than him. Josh