just to give a male point of view here i agree with sexysandra, If he was really ready to marry you, He would not say it in that way,,, My wife and I have been married 8 years we dated a very short time 4 months but knew each other for about 1 year anyhow i dated alot of times in the past and was not a virgin when we got married my wife on the other hand was a virgin when we got married we did alot of foreplay before hand and she even acted as if she was ready meaning in physical ways but i always stopped because i knew she would of regrettted it anyhow long story short when you love someone it does not matter how good they are in bed you learn over time btw at the time we got marred i was 22 just turned and my wife 24 i tease with her and say that is one of the many reasons i married her her Bday is one day before mine so i can;t forget it anyhow i hope this makes since if not pm me my 3 and a half year old is doing the 20'000 questions to me in world record time haha so can't concentrate all the way Gethen