My husband is actually very good at foreplay. He will give me oral anytime I want, but that is another thing that is odd. I don't ever have an orgasm if he uses his mouth...only his fingers. We usually play around before hand and I find it very enjoyable. I get very turned on by the foreplay, but when it comes to the physical act of intercourse its like I just stop. I have had an orgasm while we are having regular sex, but it is a very rare occasion. Very rare. I am on top most of the time. It is how we both prefer it. It is the only way that I have ever gotten an orgasm is in the position. But like I said it is very rare. We have tried a wide variety of toys and stimulants but it always is the same thing. I boil over during the foreplay but completely freeze for the rest. I am just so frustrated. I am able to bring myself to orgasm very easily. This is why it is so puzzling to me as to why I can't when I have sex with my husband. He has tried stimulating me during sex with his hands, but it is almost an annoyance. I am so confused. I am so worried about this now because lately he has started pulling away. We usually have sex every night or at least everyother. He hasn't touched me in 3 days....very odd. I don't want him to get frustrated and I think it is finally getting to him. He made a comment yesterday that made me think so. I have looked up pill after pill, but I have no idea if they work or what. I have bought several of the products on here and they work for the foreplay, but nothing else. I am scared of losing his interest. I will look up the sexual education stuff on here and see if I can find some more info. Thanks for your imput.