jfochtman

Hello! I would like to suggest that you talk to your wife about having her give you a blow job and when you cum, have her not to swallow. Have her kiss and lick you as you are cumming so that it gets all over her tongue and lips. (Also a great opportunity for your viewing pleasure!) Then after you've finished and can't take anymore have her french kiss you. Allowing your tongue to feel and taste the gift you've given her. It's a huge turn on for me & SO and might just be for you all as well.

New here, was searching the web for new blow job tips. I get bored with the same bag of tricks so I'm always trying to learn something new. This is the first site I've found that geared towards open & honest communication between "adults" and is not a "hook-up" place or somewhere you have to worry about being stalked. I did the humming, corn-cob and prostate massage (already knew though) to my boyfriend today on his lunch hour and he was completely speechless other than oh my god! When he finally caught his breath, he said you expect to go back to work after this. He was still have chills 20 mins later when I dropped him off. I asked him if he liked my new tricks tricks and he said YES... What do you think?! He also enjoyed the fact that I masturbated while giving him head. Well anyway, he said what did you do go online and look for tips on giving blow jobs and I said well yes. He was excited and a little out of it... with the biggest goofiest grin on his face. He also wanted me to convey to everyone his utmost appreciation! And is looking forward to seeing the site as well. May I just say thank you as well!!! If I were the type to manipulate him with sex, I could have him running across the USA naked right now... HEE HEE!

The biggest tease for my boyfriend is to completely ignore his genitals until the very end! I love to tie him up with him standing so I have access to his whole body. I will take my finger nails and lightly run them over his skin, so light that it's not much more than if my fingers where brushing against the hair on his legs. I do this all over his body. I lick and kiss him all over, paying particular attention to areas that you wouldn't normally the inside of your elbow, back of the knee, etc. After doing this for a few minutes I might move to doing the same thing with a riding crop or feather... very, very lightly. His whole body becomes one huge sexual organ, with each touch it sends chills up his spin and causes his cock to spasm. Then I breath my hot breath on him, let my hair brush his cock, play with cock with my tongue and lips and not touching him with my hands, only my mouth on him. Then when I'm done torturing him I will grab his ass with my hands, thrust his cock deep in my mouth and dig my nails in his butt... doing that a few times, usually does the trick!

I think that's great that you two are able to keep your sexual relationship going like that during the distance... but you have got to check your jealousy at the door if you want to continue a long lasting relationship! Speaking from my own experience I have many different orgasms... G spots are more intense and cause me to have a flooding orgasm that soaks the bed, others can be light in feeling one right after the other then building up to a huge one, it just depends, little ones, big ones where I can't breath, ones I get from giving my SO head are different from some I get during intercourse, on and on. Have fun and be open with eachother... tell her your concern and why you asked, there might be things she wonders about and was never brave enough to ask you about. TALK!!!!!!

Okay ya'll I knew here posting, so please be patient Everyone is right about asking him what he wants, desires, feels good, etc. You both have to be honest and very open to each other to make a really great love making session vs. just having sex. Regarding him not cumming everytime, isn't really a big deal especially if this is part of his history. My SO doesn't always ejaculate everytime, but does cum without cumming (his words). He's on medication that sometimes effects this ability that has nothing to do with my performance. I'm not complaining because this also has us making love for hours with occassional intermissions for a quick breather or a drink of water. So don't be discouraged in that department. I would like to suggest taking this as a huge opportunity to do some role playing. So he likes the "good girl" does he??? One time I went to the thrift store to buy a school girl outfit, with the oxford button down white shirt, tie and short pleated skirt. Yes some people might find this odd getting it from a thrift store, but hey as long as it gets the desired results?! Anyway I purposely bought them too tight so I couldn't even button the shirt all the way so my boobs popped out. I put my hair up in pigtails with red ribbons and even had on knee high white socks with mary jane shoes on. When he walked through the door from work, he instantly popped out of his pants seeing me sitting at the table. Before he could put his eyes back in his head I went into the "school-girl" role, asking him questions about the assignment he assigned me, asked him what extracuricular activities I could do, called him Mr. Shannon, dropped my pencil bending over straight legged to pick it up showing him my white cotton panties (had to actually buy those too, because I didn't own any that weren't thongs). So you could be his student and he be the professor. If you're interested in trying and you've never role played before, practice what you're going to say in front of the mirror, completely get into your role! That way you won't be full of giggles. Oh yeah I even got some hubba bubba bubble gum and played with in my mouth so he had to spank me for having gum in his classroom. And when he kissed me he tasted the gum. Needless to say, our session that night did not last hours... when the actual "lesson" started, it wasn't long at all! OMG... YEAH my boyfriend goes to break at 8:30... I can't wait to see him after visiting this site!!!!

This is my first time coming across this website and am absolutely thrilled to be here!!! I am always looking for new things to try and have done to me. I've looked on line occassionally, but have been disappointed by finding mostly links to porn sites or just the same ol' same ol' information. This site has been very refreshing and informative. Especially in the sense that everyone seems to be here to openly share their experiences and find out possibly new ones to try on their significant other and not just looking to "hook-up" with someone. Okay so you all know you're great and before you get a "big head"... I mean ego, I would like to share some of my own fun tricks... My family has always been very open about sexuality and when I met my SO that I live with, he wasn't quite sure how to take me. He had had many experiences himself and had a wild side to him. But he had never been with a woman who actually came while giving him a blow job. I love giving blow jobs and always enjoyed them in the past relationships, but then it was because of the power I felt... it wasn't sexual, but more empowering. With him it's completely different. It's to the point I am almost obsessed with giving him head. He knows this and has actually pulled me off of him when he's about to cum, holding my hair so I can't get to him and makes me watch him jack off in front of me. This drives me insane!!! Because then he won't let me taste him until he's done and I love swallowing and tasting his cum. I can't wait to try the humming, corn cob and figure 8 on him tonight... will have to write how that goes! My favorite thing to do is tie him up hands & feet, standing up in a spread eagle in a door way with a restraint system that he made me with ropes & cleats (used to tie rope on boats & flagpoles - about $3 at a hardware store), then doing everything I want. I also love to make him watch me give him head. This drives him nuts as I tease him, always slowing down when he's about to cum to prolong the session. When he can't take anymore he grabs my hair holding me still and thrusts his cock in my mouth. Since he wears glasses I found the best position for him to watch is when he's on his back up against a wedge pillow. You can find one at a medical supply store for about $15 which is exactly the same as the $100 ones you find in some sex toy stores. Having great sex accessories doesn't have to be expensive, you just have to be creative! Okay will write one more for now, then I have to get some work done... I like having him tied up on the bed for this - I take a very soft nylon rope wrap one end around my foot and between my toes. Wrap it around his penis and balls gently a couple of times, while teasing him with light kisses, nibbles, sucking, etc. Having the other end of the rope in my hand. I kiss his mouth and slowly increase the tension on the rope to tighten the grip around his package. This works basically like a cock ring, but you get to control everything. Remember you have to be extremely careful and have a very trusting relationship. I then proceed to lick his head, down his shaft and his balls. Take him slowly in my mouth, playing with the edge of the head.... do a variety of things to start to bring him to climax, changing the tension from loose to almost over the edge too tight... making sure that I don't get to the point of him calling out his safe word. Just when he's about to cum I release all pressure around his balls & cock so he's free to cum completely wide open in my mouth. We are very blessed to have eachtother! Soon I'll post some of the mind blowing things he does to me. Okay, now I'm going to call him and see if he's taking his dinner break soon at work. Once again, love this site and will definitely be a frequent visitor and poster!!!!!!

This is my first time coming across this website and am absolutely thrilled to be here!!! I am always looking for new things to try and have done to me. I've looked on line occassionally, but have been disappointed by finding mostly links to porn sites or just the same ol' same ol' information. This site has been very refreshing and informative. Especially in the sense that everyone seems to be here to openly share their experiences and find out possibly new ones to try on their significant other and not just looking to "hook-up" with someone. Okay so you all know you're great and before you get a "big head"... I mean ego, I would like to share some of my own fun tricks... My family has always been very open about sexuality and when I met my SO that I live with, he wasn't quite sure how to take me. He had had many experiences himself and had a wild side to him. But he had never been with a woman who actually came while giving him a blow job. I love giving blow jobs and always enjoyed them in the past relationships, but then it was because of the power I felt... it wasn't sexual, but more empowering. With him it's completely different. It's to the point I am almost obsessed with giving him head. He knows this and has actually pulled me off of him when he's about to cum, holding my hair so I can't get to him and makes me watch him jack off in front of me. This drives me insane!!! Because then he won't let me taste him until he's done and I love swallowing and tasting his cum. I can't wait to try the humming, corn cob and figure 8 on him tonight... will have to write how that goes! My favorite thing to do is tie him up hands & feet, standing up in a spread eagle in a door way with a restraint system that he made me with ropes & cleats (used to tie rope on boats & flagpoles - about $3 at a hardware store), then doing everything I want. I also love to make him watch me give him head. This drives him nuts as I tease him, always slowing down when he's about to cum to prolong the session. When he can't take anymore he grabs my hair holding me still and thrusts his cock in my mouth. Since he wears glasses I found the best position for him to watch is when he's on his back up against a wedge pillow. You can find one at a medical supply store for about $15 which is exactly the same as the $100 ones you find in some sex toy stores. Having great sex accessories doesn't have to be expensive, you just have to be creative! Okay will write one more for now, then I have to get some work done... I like having him tied up on the bed for this - I take a very soft nylon rope wrap one end around my foot and between my toes. Wrap it around his penis and balls gently a couple of times, while teasing him with light kisses, nibbles, sucking, etc. Having the other end of the rope in my hand. I kiss his mouth and slowly increase the tension on the rope to tighten the grip around his package. This works basically like a cock ring, but you get to control everything. Remember you have to be extremely careful and have a very trusting relationship. I then proceed to lick his head, down his shaft and his balls. Take him slowly in my mouth, playing with the edge of the head.... do a variety of things to start to bring him to climax, changing the tension from loose to almost over the edge too tight... making sure that I don't get to the point of him calling out his safe word. Just when he's about to cum I release all pressure around his balls & cock so he's free to cum completely wide open in my mouth. We are very blessed to have eachtother! Soon I'll post some of the mind blowing things he does to me. Okay, now I'm going to call him and see if he's taking his dinner break soon at work. Once again, love this site and will definitely be a frequent visitor and poster!!!!!!