i get cleaned up before anal sex and use a ganeric feminine wash and a colon tube sex and use a pad afterwards and takes the hassel out of it. try putting underpads under you next time and save yourself , you can get them from the store.
my bf enjoys anal sex as much as i do (about 3 times a week ) and he started small like a douch nozzel and went from there be sure he uses lots of lube, and to start out slow.ask your BF to try a Norform.