I think this question is along the same path. My wife just had our first child (C-section) 6 weeks ago and we were intimate for the first time a couple days ago. One of my favorite things is going down on her and when I did she said that it felt different. Before her clit was VERY sensitve and had to watch how much pressure I used with my tongue, but the other night she said it felt different, that she could not feel my tongue on her clit like she did before. Do hormones cause the clit to become desensatized? Or is this cause she is still recovering and the swelling has not gone away? Stump