It's been just under 5 months now for me. But, I've only ever slept with one guy (after 22 long years, I just lost my virginity earlier this year) - he's since broken up with me, and I just haven't yet found someone I'm willing to have sex with. I'm sometimes tempted to do the random, no-strings-attached thing (because I quickly discovered that I do, in fact, really enjoy sex), but I just don't have it in me. So in the meantime, I'm having fun with my toys.