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Hi! I know how discreet shipping and billing is on this site, however, does a copy of the receipt, including items purchased, go to the billing address? because my billing addres for my card is where my whole family reads the mail and my folks (though i'm an 'adult') ALWAYS open and read my mail, whereas my shipping address is where only I get the mail and i don't want anyone seeing what i order. thank you!

My boyfriend and I have never watched porn together but we thought we'd give it a try. Since Valentine's Day is coming up, I was wondering if anyone could make a few DVD recommendations that I can buy here on TooTimid. He and I both think something not too kinky or hardcore; more like videos for couples kind of thing. Any suggestions? I don't know how to shop for porn lol!

Well, I finally did it. I made a purchase from this site, as small as it was. Just some lubes and a simple toy. That was a huge leap for me and I just wanted to say how thrilled I was with my order. It came fast, and exactly as described. In a plain box with no identifying features. My family answered the door and I just told them it was a makeup order Thank you tootimid and everyone who works so hard to keep it going! After such a pleasant experience I know I will be making more frequent orders to hopefully help awaken the sex goddess within me

Hello all! I will just start with this. I'm rather new to sex whereas my boyfriend is definitely not. I consider myself old fashioned (sort of) simply because i just don't have a lot of sexual knowledge/ideas swimming around in my head. I only get to see my boyfriend about one weekend a month, and he will be here this friday. Problem is, yesterday he told me he wants to try 2 new things...69 and lube. I said ok, i bought the lube ( i got some strawberry astroglide, and a few others). I'm open to suggestions, but he says that since he picked 2 new things to try , i have to as well... well, i have NO idea what to even suggest. We do oral on each other all the time, but we won't do anal (ow...) and we're not really into the whole bondage, whips and chains stuff. my idea was maybe to suggest going and renting a porn movie or something, and at some point treat him to a wet t-shirt shower (which i know he'd like) but i have no other ideas. not even for good positions. I'd rather have ideas for SEX itself instead of foreplay and whatnot. I'm kinda shy when it comes to toys, and its too late to get any anyway seeing as how he'll be here soon and there are no sex shops or even novelty shops within 100 miles of me. (I live in a TINY TINY town) PLEASE HELP! ANY suggestions welcome and needed! I honestly can't think of a SINGLE thing and he wants me to have a few ideas... Thanks

Hi! Wasn't sure where to put this, but here goes. Lately, Ive been thinking about getting a piercing. My bf really wants me to get my navel pierced to have something to 'play' with lol, and I'll admit, ive wanted to do it for quite some time, but I have a bit of a pudgy belly haha, and in all reality it wouldn't look flattering on me at all. So i'm really not sure about it? I know that is kind of vain of me, but what do you think? Also, ive been researching clit hood piercings, and i'm considering it! Its hard for me to orgasm, so maybe it would help? I don't think that is my bf's cup of tea though... Comments, tips or help on either of these piercing ideas?!?! Thanks so much!!!

hello all! to cut to the chase, i'm a traditionalist...a prude i guess when it comes to trying new, kinky things in the bedroom. I get very nervous at the mention of a new position for goodness sakes! however, my man and i were talking and we got to a point where he said 'nope im taking you to the porn shop and you're going to pick us out some toys!' needless to say, i panicked. I couldn't bring myself to pick that out!! much less use them! i know, its sorta pathetic and possibly immature, but i come from a VERY VERY conservative family and i lost my virginity to this man. so can anyone give me some ideas for good toys for absolutely petrified beginners? i'm willing to give it a try thanks

Wow! First of all, THANK YOU GUYS! That was a ton of information Howard! That's awesome and I appreciate it. Lets see here. Many of your points were right, I was brought up in such a strict Christian home that when my mother saw kissing on the TV she turned the channel...I know, weird!!! Anyway, I have been with my bf since Jan 07...We didn't have sex until July 07, and we only just started swapping oral recently. He has however been giving me stimulation with is fingers since about April/May. What can I say, I was a bit shy to do oral or let him do it either. So yes, I suppose that reflects me not truly being comfortable with him or even myself. Howard you are also correct about me masturbating in specific ways, but even then it takes ME forever to get to orgasm. Ive tried to train my body to come to orgasm differently, and more easily, but I guess I need to work more on that... I will definitely try some of the things you mentioned and let you know how it goes!!! Come to think of it, I think part of the reason its so hard is because we are sort of long distance now. It didn't start that way, but we both moved. Now we see each other only a few times a month and since I KNOW there will be sex involved maybe I'm subconsciously stressing myself over it??? I don't know. I will work on it and see how it goes!!! Thanks a million!

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Hello again! Here's my problem, I CANNOT orgasm unless I do it myself by clit stimulation. I never even get close when my bf and I have sex or when he fingers me or even when he gives me oral. Ive tried to show him but it just doesn't work...nothign works and really, it is frustrating HIM more than me because he feels hes not doing anything right. I don't know what to do! He has been with three other women, and I lost my virginity to him, and he says I am the hardest one to get even near a climax! I'm starting to feel really bad! I orgasm when I masturbate but it never works when I'm with him...He gave me oral for the first time the other day, and even that didn't help! We've even tried a combo of penetration and clit stimulation. NADA!!! You get the drift... Its not that I am uncomfortable at all with him...I'm not, I trust him completely and can totally be myself with him. Help!? Thanks so much and I hope you are all having a great night!

Hi, I'm still new here haha I have a question about ordering products from tootimid....it says discreet billing and shipping...how discreet haha? I share a credit card with another family member, and the bill is seen by my parents AND siblings...also, I live with a lot of people. You can see my issues What will a product look like on a bill and when it is shipped? I know I read something about Atlantic Innovations or something??? Will that be listed on the bill? Can that be linked back to this site? Thanks so much!

This is a problem Ive been having for a few months now...Everytime my BF and I have sex, within 24 hrs, I get HORRIBLE UTI symptoms (urinary tract infection if you don't know). These symptoms include constant, frequent, PAINFUL urination (literally like every 10 minutes, but barely anything comes out), often my urine has a musky smell and it's kinda cloudy, and a few times there has even been blood in my urine! AHH! This usually goes away in about 4 hrs...and only comes back if we have more sex....I DON'T KNOW WHAT IS GOING ON!!! It only lasts a little while (generally at night which is terrible because I have to get up and disturb him every 10 min) etc....Is this still a UTI even though it only lasts a few hours??? Ive tried the cranberry juice thing, showering before and after, peeing before and after, nothing seems to help! NOTE: We ALWAYS use condoms and change them out when needed, there is NO chance of STD's for either of us (we got tested), etc I know sex causes a high chance of UTI because bacteria gets worked in the urethra...but come on...EVERY TIME UGH!!!! Has anyone else gotten this? what do i do?

2 issues... 1) My boyfriend loves a LOT of spit when I give him oral, and so do I because it makes things so much easier. However, after a minute or two, I'm out of spit and can't seem to keep it wet enough! I've resorted to taking sips of water every few min to keep the saliva going, but stopping to do that is NOT sexy and it's irritating. Is there a trick to making more spit and keeping it going? 2) Also, my worst issue is that because I use so much saliva, and I am VERY thorough when I give him oral, I generally end up getting saliva all over myself then I smell like spit all night and TBH it's pretty gross. I don't know what to do to keep the spit where I want it instead of all over me mucking things up! Does anyone know any tips or tricks to help me with either of these things? THANKS! P.S. I am new here- Found the site about a week ago, been reading lots of topics and decided to join today! Great site!!!