SensualWoman

I don't mean to be, well, mean (I have terrible spelling...) but I think that it is more than that he is used to the "quick fix", I think that he's also not interested in you as his girlfriend anymore. Because my bf didn't loose his virginity until 25, and that was with me, and he had never been intimate with another woman before, and was addicted to porn just before he met me. However, even though he was used to that quick fix, he has tried his hardest to keep me satisfied, and never thought of it as a job, rather something he wanted and enjoyed doing. So I don't see how that is a good excuse... Or maybe it really IS the way he sees it... I don't know. And it is true, my bf and I both masterbate, especially during my menstral cycle. And when I am not here with him, he masterbates like a freak! Like, 4-5 times a day, if I am gone the whole day... But he never does so many times when I am here, because we are doing things. Have you tried giving him a surprise blow job? Or maybe dressed in uber sexy underwear or pj's? Maybe you could ask him if he wants to try having sex while watching porn...? Like, watching and trying to doing the same positions as they do... Although, I'm sure it would bother anyone to hear that he said that the chick in porn doesn't care when he comes. It's not about that! It's about coming at the same time, to feel that connection! The pleasure of orgasming at the same time is so amazing! It shouldn't be about HIM it should be about US you know? The way he says things sounds selfish, and will not help the neither of you. Talk to him about it, even if he is uncomfortable. Just put it in a sort of secret code, so he doesn't feel too pressured to into talking about it in a outright way. Just be sure to think about if he's really worth all that time and effort.