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That's what it is! I didn't know I was supposed to do that. I guess I'll wait a little bit before and attempt it again though... Also...does the number of blades matter? Like...is it better to have more blades or less? I think the razor I ended up getting either has four or five blades.

I have always shaved my pubic area completely because I just like the way it feels as opposed to the hair. I've always had trouble actually getting smooth though and it drove me nuts! Finally I found this site and read the article about shaving. I followed everything! I sat in the warm water for about 10-15 minutes and I was already trimmed. I even went out and bought a brand new $10 razor for men and some shaving cream. I did everything like I was supposed to but once I got to shaving right above it IT HURT! I managed to get the nice smoothness but I'm not so sure the pain was worth it. I bled like a stuck pig too. What did I do wrong?

Haha! My grandma has so many myths about sex. I remember the first time we talked about me having sex. She went on and on about how condoms break, then when I did have sex and came to her all freaked out and worried, she asked if I used a condom. I had of course and she blew it off telling me I was fine if I used a condom. LOL! Total turn around. Anyway....Thanks LoveGodess. That makes me feel a lot better! I'm so glad I can get some use out of my awesome bathtub!!

Me and my SO just got our first house. (Yay!!) We made sure to get a big bathroom with a nice whirlpool bath tub. The other night, I decided to take a bubble bath and of course, he asked to join. Things quickly heated up and he wanted to have sex in the bathtub. I wasn't too sure about this however. So we ended up not. My question is: is it safe to have sex in water? Not just a plain bathtub with some bubbles, but what about a hot tub or a pool? My grandmother had mentioned it once a long time ago, for what reason I don't remember, but she said she didn't think it would be safe. I've also heard that water could get pushed into your uterus(sp?) and cause an infection. I was just curious if this is true because I would LOVE to have sex in my nice, new bathtub, but I don't want to do anything that is going to get me sick. Thanks!

Thanks much everyone!

Thanks Howard. That is great tip(about not doing everything at once). I just really got into it which is definitly different. I decided to do as much as I knew and then afterward we talked about the things he liked a whole lot. So now I know which things to do more of and which things will send him completely over the edge!

Last night I decided that I was going to give my bf the BEST blow job I had ever done. Normally, I like giving head, but we tend to get caught up in the moment and skip this part. Well...last night I went down on him and used as many tips from here I could think of. Now...My man is not very vocal when we do any thing sexual. He breathes heavy...and sometimes stops breathing for a little...but thats about it. I have never EVER heard him moan...untill last night. I was in the middle of trying to deepthroat him (still haven't quite gotten this down yet) and I don't know what I did, but boy did he like it. He actually moaned...and I'm not talking about some little quiet thing either. It was LOUD. I was so proud of myself for making him have a reason to really get vocal. And it's all thanks to everyones tips here! I even was able to swallow when he finally did cum. I've never been able to do that without practically getting sick. But not last night. It was amazing! Thanks everyone and especially Mikayla for her amazing article!

I think I know what you're going through. I used to be that way about giving blow jobs. See...I used to live in this little bitty country town right smack in the middle of the Bible Belt. So naturally I grew up hearing things like, "If you have sex before marriage you are going to hell," and, "Giving guys blow jobs is just what whores do." Then I had a bf ask me to do it. I got really offended because I got that stuck in my mind that "normal" people don't do that. That was only the type of things prostitutes did and it was dirty. I actually didn't give a guy a blow job untill much later and had researched it. That's when I found this site. Once you start getting out and talking to people, you normally find those who like things you thought were taboo. Trust me, I'm sure there are TONS of people out there with the same fantasies as you. Honestly, I think that would be really exciting! Just talk to people and try to figure out if there's something in your past that is making you feel guilty. Then its really just about overcoming that and realizing that there are plenty of others out there who share your sentiments.

Thanks all for the advice. I will definitly have to try different things and see what works. I'll let you know how everything goes! But if anyone else has some more advice, I am more then willing to try some other things as well. I just want to make my man happy! (And me too!)

Thanks Howard. I guess I will just have to get used to it. What I've been trying to do is just let a little in my mouth and get used to that. Then the next time I've found I can take more. Hopefully, I can just work up to taking it all and not thinking twice about it!

I have always enjoyed giving my SO head. I love seeing him get off so hard and me being the one who caused it. That is a great feeling. I only have one problem. I can't swallow when he cums. It really sucks cause I want to be able to finish him off completely! We've even got this rule in place that when he's fixing to cum, he taps me on the shoulder and I just finish him off with a hand job. I think it would really blow his mind if I could swallow instead. See...I have this weird thing about foods. I'm a huge "texture eater" as my grandma used to say. I don't like coconut because of the way it feels in my mouth. It's the same thing with tomatoes, grits, and even pudding! I love the taste of all of those things though. It's not the taste that bothers me about the cum either. It's just the feeling of it in my mouth. It feels like hot, watery pudding and I can't stand it. I've tried the deepthroating too but my gag reflexes are extremely sensitive. I've almost overcome that but not just yet. But even when I get him back far enough so I don't taste it, I can still feel it. Does anyone have any kind of tips so that I can satisfy my SO fully?

Oh trust me...I've told him quite a few times that even though I'm really small, he ain't gonna hurt me!! The only time I think I've ever seen him just get completely relaxed with it and not seem so...uptight...was when I got him completely shitfaced. It was great! I didn't have to start anything. He just took over and didn't stop...well...till he passed out.

Hmm...Let's see... -My mom's kitchen table(they weren't home of course) -My bf's parent's minivan during a football game -Bf's brother's bed Yup...that's all I can think of right now. I was about 17 or 18. LOL! Fun fun fun!!

Thanks yall! I really appriciate all the help! Hopefully I can get him to come out his shell a little more. He's just as new to this as me and I think he had some bad experiences with a previous lover.

Oh wow!!! Mirrors sound amazing!!! I have this weird fetish with backs anyway and seeing my man's back muscles flexing...yeah...that sounds great. Another issue is the fact that he is so stinking shy! Every time we've had sex, I've had to initiate it. That really is not a problem but every once in a while I wouldn't mind having him throw me up against a wall and just going at it! But how do I tell him that without making him sound kinda sissy for not wanting to start stuff?