chloegirl

The Overton Window by Glen Beck is very good! 7 Days in Utopia by David Lamar Cook is really good as well

Brandy, so sorry for what you're going through. Don't give up! Miracles do happen every day! Rave: Friday night at last and perfect stay in and cuddle weather! Rant: When the cuddle bunny you crave is not home

WOW!!! Very Hot! That sounds like something out of a movie....or one of my own fantasies! More please Booboo! Let us live vicariously thru you!

DITTO!!!

I absolutely adore his cock and balls! I can and do spend hours (whenever we can) savoring him any way and any place....no time limit ever pops into my head because I get so aroused by having him, and his arousal feeds the passion more.... But that's because of the heat and mutual passion we share. Yes he does have the most beautiful cock I have ever seen, to reach down and grip him, feel him, see him makes me almost frenzied in my desire to devour him every way I can, but it's the give and take between the two of us that makes me want him/it 24/7.....I spent alot of years with a man who was so sexually stunted, dysfunctional and selfish, it was always me giving and NEVER receiving anything....well it got to where it was just another chore....interest and desire can't be maintained on a one way street.

Sex drives vary from person to person and what's going in your life at any particular time. The stereotypes all make it sound like women especially lose their sex drive as they get older, but around here it seems like just the opposite! (maybe there's something in the water!) Most of the women I know around 50 give or take, have a higher drive than they have ever had, wanting sex every single day while most of the men in this age group seem to be slowing down. If you could have your way, and being totally realistic regarding your health and ability, how often would you be having sex at this point in your life? How often are you actually getting it?

We all know that guys love receiving oral, but do they love giving it just as much? And if you do, is there a time limit where after a certain point you just want to be done? Women take longer to O and love receiving as much as men, but after a little while most of us start to worry "are we taking too long? is he getting bored or sick of this?" and once we get that thought in our head we have pretty much doomed our chance. There's probably not a woman alive who hasn't cut it short long before they were ready because they started worrying about what you were thinking (which is a such a bummer!) How long is it fair to lay there and enjoy before worrying about YOU? How long before you have had enough?

Margaritas and girl's night out...led to some interesting discussions and questions...curious to hear all of ya'lls input: Negative body image seems to worry alot of women no matter how young or old, how thick or thin, or if it's a new relationship or a long standing one. They want to know once and for all: you are both hot & aroused & attracted to each other. You have an amazing sexual compatibility. You are both ready for hours of amazing sex and play with each other. She looks good; in decent shape, hair, makeup, clothing, lingerie all good. But she's only human, there's always something that's not quite picture perfect, "model" condition. Now be honest, do you notice her cellulite? Or that her thighs might not be stick thin? Or that little poochy lower stomach, or whatever little body issue that she secretly frets about? Does it gross you out or turn you off the way she worries it does? The articles say guys don't care when they're about to get laid, but what about once you've gotten off? Do the imperfections stand out in your mind? We want to hear from real guys...dish!

Congratulations on the job SS! What field are you going into? As to your rant, you are totally right on....how can someone walk away from their child & their needs like a cat walking away from the litter box? They get so caught up in their animosity to the ex that the kids get shafted!

Pretty lingerie is always nice. A new vibe or some sensation gel with you communicating to her that you intend to give HER the pleasure can be a good idea that will get a nice hot night for both of you. Pick something that lets her know you find her hot and desirable but you better keep a little romance and tenderness in there too.....You don't want to go full on "dirty sex" for Valentine's Day (even though if you're lucky it will naturally go there!)

My big, long rant for the day: Seeing shows like Toddlers & Tiaras disturbs the hell out of me!...Watching little baby girls made up and coached into acting like mini ho's & drama queen divas just turns my stomach! All mom's think their kids are gorgeous, but when you are so confused that you think it's a good idea to sexualize a child just to get attention you are crossing the line of good sense and responsible parenting! I have personally known mothers who started dressing their daughters and putting makeup on them like they were 16 and pushing the "boyfriend" crap from the 1st grade! Then people are shocked when they hear the statistics that nowdays the majority of girls are already giving blow jobs by the time they are 14 and a large number knocked up before 18! WTF??? I think it's very healthy and empowering for women to embrace their sexuality and not be repressed. It's a lifetime journey of exploration and if you can find that confidence and knowledge as a younger woman instead of at middle age you have a better chance of ending up in a relationship that will be more totally fulfilling. (notice I am saying WOMAN and NOT girl!) The paradox is that you don't want to see young girls be promiscuous either. There are the obvious dangers and negative consequences such as STD's and unplanned pregnancies, but no matter how smart and mature they think they are a young ego can get lost among the drama of too many partners leaving and using you whether it's a one night stand or a relationship. Talk to your kids openly and honestly about sexuality but don't preprogram them into thinking that's all they have to offer! They need to mature emotionally to be able to really appreciate and enjoy it anyway! ok...sorry...I'll get off my soapbox now

Attaboy!

Really? You hate it? Somehow I doubt that lol! Do you let her know when she gets you like that? I guarantee it will turn her on to no end! Getting you hard and aroused in public.....mmmmmm that is one heady aphrodesiac!

The only way I can get there is to stop thinking and just focus on sensation. I love watching and being aware of it all, watching his face, listening to his breathing change, but the only way I'm gonna go over is when I STOP paying attention to anything other than the build up I'm feeling and focus only on that. Now when I'm flying solo it's a whole other thing....fantasy going 100 mph in my head as I explode!

This is one of my favorites! Right after Cowgirl....LOVE riding him....deciding how slow or fast, leaning forward grinding my clit against him and feeding him my nipples or leaning way back taking him deep and hard and hitting that g-spot

hahahaha when I first saw this topic in the menu I immediatly thought "that's not a bad idea....Masturbation Boot Camp!" You have to admit that the furtive, get it over with quickly, have to hide it way we all started out with is a sad and pale example of just how hot, sensual, and creative we can be once we embrace the visual eroticism of sharing that with a hot and open minded partner! Practice makes perfect and with the right input you can raise it to an art form in itself! And on another note, how many of you have laid there in the dark beside your sleeping partner and covertly indulged while you thought they weren't aware hhmmm? Or been walked in on by your partner? What was the reaction? Did they leave you feeling embarrassed and angry, or did they stand there enjoying the show maybe joining in where a good time was had by all? Have you found that THEIR arousal, erotic verbalizations and coaxing gets you hotter causing that give and take to just flame up where you both explore a little more each time?

edit (ooops sorry....didn't mean to hijack this thread....better put it in another post)

The ice scene from 9 1/2 Weeks!

Thanks! I love them too! You can order the thong at: http://www.wickedtemptations.com/leather-357-ct.htm#loadContent.filterValuesRequest,filter_cid_3014=3014 I bought the boots locally last year but you can find some similar at: http://www.chelseasofnewyork.com/Pleaser_Leather_Platform_Thigh_High_Boots_p/indulge3011-pl.htm http://www.pinkstilettoshop.com/5heelpigleatherthighhighboots.aspx http://www.funkypair.com/5inchthighhighbootssz6-16.aspx I LOVE to play dress up every now and then! And that includes dressing up HIS cock!

Oh sweetie, I'm all about the silk, satin, and lace too!

Let's just say that we like to play a game where I get him all hot and hard and aroused before sending him out to run an errand or meet a friend or client or flirt with the receptionist somewhere he has to be. The verbal build up, instuctions, and foreplay beforehand are more than enough to sustain him. There is something so erotic about the taboo of being out in public aroused like that knowing that someone will probably notice (will they think that THEY are the reason he's sporting wood?) , knowing that your obedience will be hotly rewarded when you get home. Not knowing if I might be watching from across the room, or if I might "accidently" walk past, quickly and covertly reach down as I brush by to "see" just how obedient he is being.

No denying that's it not necessarily comfortable but for occasional play you have to admit it is visually HOT!!! (Yep, I've got ALL of these!)

It varies. Sometimes they are over quick but I'm ready to go for another almost immediately, other times they will last longer, and SOMETIMES they are so awesomely intense that my ears literally stop up and my whole body will quiver and convulse for 2 or 3 minutes after, leaving me so relaxed I'm almost paralyzed....man I LOVE THOSE!! It seems like they last the longest and are most intense when they come after a longggg, hot buildup. The more stimulation the better the O!

yes I've teasingly told my daughter and best friend the same thing and in theory they have an idea, but damnnnnn that box of cocks could be one heck of a surprise! lol I guess I will just have to count on them being my Disposal Service and let them just deal with it!

WOW!!! I have to say Booboo that that sounds so incredibly HOT to me! It's those kinds of scenes that pop into my head and really get me worked up and over the edge! I think I could go for this in a big way at this stage of my life (earlier on....I don't think so) So much rests on the fact that BOTH of you are totally on board and in sync with it. Sounds like you've got the best of both worlds! Very, very exciting! Have there ever been times where you hooked up with another couple and came away with a negative outcome? (maybe the chemistry didn't play out or something?) How do you handle it when a couple hits you up and you are not attracted or interested? Have any of them ever gotten snarky with you? Want to hear about every aspect of this good and bad as the idea of playing this way has a very strong draw!