veggywitch

Hey My boyfriend and I have a good sexlife, I think. We have worked through alot of communication problems and whatnot, but one thing still doesn't seem to click I can cum from pretty much any position in the book, except ones like 'girl on top' in which I am in control... if I am on top I loose my entire sex drive, it doesnt feel good at all, but he gets tired of being in control and 'doing all the work' any suggestions on how to ... make it work?

thank you to everyone who replied.

I have tried on several occasions to talk with him, when that didn't work I sent him an email... he says I am not being supportive! I am there for him, supportive and all that but its hard when litterally he isn't there for me!

Hello! so I ask my boyfriend daily when we can hang out. I understand that we both have school, work and family stuff to attend to, but, I haven't seen him in a month! he has time for friends but not me - why?????? I don't wanna go on expensive dates, just dates...... any insights guys? thank you maida

I think we are in the same boat more or less (except I am a 19 year old girl) what I have found is that it helps talking openly anyway you can about how much you love him/her and then saying (in so many words) what do you want to try? what could we be doing better in your opinion.... dont feel like she has all this experience over you.... (bad wording but you know what I mean) maybe feel like you have doors to open and she has the keys... you know what I mean? explore new frontiers together... 'cause like she may have had other lovers but she is in love with you. took me awhile to realise that but my bf finely drilled it into my head...

well... I have dated a man from Russia and the Czech Republic, a man from Germany, and right now a man from Iran, and gone on dates with two from canada (where Im from). I gotta say accents are super sexy but thats not something to base a potential relationship on. Its about what you feel notwhat ever your particular hangup is. thank you maidan

So heres the deal - My Bf is so confident that he can "control" his ejaculation that he refuses to wear a condom. Im fine with the no condom part (mostly...) because we use other forms of protection. The problem, as I see it, is that he seems to have little control over his ejaculation! lol. He says he wants more "exciting" sex, but I really dont have much time to work with (I mean like two blows from my mouth or 5 seconds with him on top and he ejaculates). so this is a twofer if you can think of ANYTHING for me to make it more exciting or ANYTHING for him to ...you know. thank you very much as always -maidan

Hello all, I am Maidan - a vegatarien, animal activist and wicca. I am also a fairly conservative girl from BC Canada, I am curently dating a man from another country. We are both students and broke so we are both living with our parents - which makes getting some nooky in very difficult! I joined this site to see if I could gleen some new ideas for spicing things up. I am pretty inexperienced and he isnt, which is frusterating for me! but I think I am going to surprise him next time we get some alone time which should be in.... a few months ..GRR well.. thats me in a teeny tiny nut shell it was nice to meet you - maidan

THank goodness someone else asked this! lol. I was wondering the same thing, I get super horney during my periods but have always been to shy to ask my bf if its too gicky for him,