Well... its been awhile... and it seems this has caused quite a stir... but i took everyones advice here and my wife and I came to a very pleasant resolution. heres what happened.. I explained to her that this was something that I thought to be very arousing, yet I respect her decision as my partner. I also said that if the tables were turned, and this was a fantasy that she wanted played out... I wouldnt even think twice about it. Only for the mere fact that I love her tremendously, and want to make sure that her needs and desires are fulfilled 100%. I reminded her of a time we were out to dinner, and I offered her a taste of something off of my plate, and she simply said ..."No I dont like that"... I then went on to ask if shed ever had it before, and much to my surprise... she hadnt. So i siad... if you never tried something. how do you know that you dont like it. Just by the way it looks ??? Needless to say, when ever we go down town she orders this course every time.... and when I reminded her of this .. i think i actually saw the light bulb go on over her head..... i just said.. look... once.. only once... and if its still no from that point forward... i really truly cant complain cause we have a fantastic relationship and an incredible sex life.... well... so you know.... the face is still outta the question... but she now lets me cum in her mouth... she admitted being wrong... and she said the best part is seeing how hard it makes me cum....