whitefang2002

I use lube all the time...but I use it so my episiotomy site doesn't rip open on me...even if i'm really wet without it, I still use it....spend a week or so recovering if it rips and then I can't have sex for awhile...so better just to use it!

I read the entire post...and I agree with the others...you need to get out. I was just in a relationship like yours. But I refused to marry him unless I was truely happy with him. But thats the only difference...we had a daughter together too. And right after she was born on the way home in the truck she started crying and he told me to shut her the F up before he did something he would regret. I tried many times to get out and he wouldn't let me. I didn't have a vehicle to use...stuck in the house....yeah really really controlling. You don't want to stay in there.....mine started to get physical when I told him I was leaving him... So please don't let on to him that you are leaving. Maybe your parents would be willing to help you. Granted they didn't like him in the first place (mine didn't either) and I didn't want to go to them cuz I didn't want to hear "I told you so" dumb, but true.....and now I realize I should have gone to them for help ASAP when I needed out. I worry about the safety of you and your daughter....men like that don't deserve someone as great as you. Your trying but he just doesn't care...and he isn't going to change unless he wants to...and it sounds like he never will...just like my ex. You can PM me if you would like to talk some more...but please please care about your 2's safety and get out! This is not looking like a happy future if you stay....and something bad might happen that you won't be able to fix later on. So take action now! If you don't have money to move out and get your own place. Talk to the county...they can get you a place...don't feel like you are stuck there, cuz you have many options to take. Hope you the best and please keep us updated as if he agrees to change or wants to change or if you get out. We will be worrying about you until you are in a safe environment. Hang in there....we are here for you if you need us!

thanks boomer i'm going to go loook that up now!

Your letter got me thinking I need to do one for my hubby to make him understand things more.....just not sure if I have the guts to do it like you did!

Thanks my2cents. I am going to ask my doctor about the vitamins....and about the sauna and inferred room...not sure if there would be one around me....really really small town. The hotels around me dont even have saunas.....I'll keep my eyes open though. Thanks for the advise!

yeah I have previously thought about this too...since I have been to sex toy parties around here.......but their products aren't that great. Last one I was at didn't have much for toys...just lotions and tingly creams and stuff like that. (and pharamone stuff that was great)...but just wasn't happy with their products...

Thanks everyone! Sad part is I am limited on treatment options...allergic to some pain meds used for the treatment of FM and then other meds that I was even on...for back pain and headaches before.....I was on when all this started so those obviously don't work for me! lol. But I will keep you all updated!

Have fun...we will be here when you get back!

Well....finally have an answer to all my problems....and someone else mentioned on TT that I should look into it...and they were right. I have fibromyalgia. Lovely! Atleast I have an answer...now I have to go through testing meds to see what ones work for me! Thanks for all your support and listening to me rant about things. Keep you all updated on when I actually find something that works for me. lol. Btw....there anyone on this site with FM too?

I dont like this either.... Just bad experience that i haven't gotten over yet....and my SO doesn't express interest in doing this. Oral yeah...but he doesn't care if i deep throat. Do it on occation...but no forcing going on.

thanks em

Just wondering if any of that tighten up shrink stuff work.... Just wanted to expirement with things and just curious to see reviews of products like this. Wondering how it feels....lasts long.....feels better.....? I think i'm tight but was wondering if this would make things (like g-spot stimulation) feel better.......

I have looked at this one before. Glad to hear about the vibes....I LOVE strong vibes!!!....so it doens't sound like this toy is for me. great review!

Wow I was just looking at that last night..and since the lucid dreams #14 and some tootimid lube was on my list I decided to take advantage of this great offer!!!! Thanks so much Rob!!!! Can't wait to get all in the mail

yeah i'm with Suzy on that!

welcome.....and feel free to get addicted to this place, like most of us have!

You shouldn't have to wait till you are 21 to meet people in bars.......sometimes bars are the worst place to meet people.........not saying that you can't find a good one in there......should look in other places too.

my SO won't use durex ones.....says he doens' tlike that brand. anyone know any trogens that don't smell bad? lol.

you speaking of circum. angel?

it was the other day in the chat room where me and some other people thought someone was underage....and me and korn went to a different room. just the way the convo. was going seemed like she was underage. And now to find out......i know she is as old as she says and its just the way she is. So i really underestimated her and mentioned to acouple other people that i thought she might be underage.................hard to tell the story with out all the names.....

OMG...........just needed to fill you all in.............the smell is the condoms!!!!!!! lol

Yeah I willl just say this....don't judge a book by its cover..... I did and I regret to say that I feel really bad and like an idiot! I have since appologied and explained my actions so I hope it is all okay now!

yeah army wife I had gotten that movie too. It was basically close your eyes and listen to your inner self kind of thing. Pointed you in a slight direction to the move...but you had to kind of do your own thing too. I wanted to learn how to for my SO....but after that movie I just didn't do anything with it. I did buy a carmon electra strip video.......and actually forgot about it till i read this...... That just might be what I'm doing today!!!!!!!

haha

This is all so good for me........since i have a bad self image of myself!