FloydVixen

Whew. Glad to know I'm not the only one, for some reason I was thinkin' I was early in all this but guess not. Thank you for lettin' me know. I got all these thoughts flowin around my head about this whole feelin sexy thing, how it relates to your relationship, how it is just a huge circle,both vicious & not, etc.... BUT it has been a very long day, finally got the kids into bed & now my brain has turned to mush & can not seem to get it out into intelligible words. LOL maybe tomorrow

god?? you post on here??

Thanks Pappy. I have finally crossed that bridge, what you project is what others will see!! I still struggle, like my post hints on, not gettin' a bit of affirmation from my significant other. He may not have given me the attention I was seeking, which knocked me down a bit, but not completely

Heh. Sorry it has been so long since I posted. Trust me, I havn't been gone, just lurkin'. I need to get this off my chest & really no where else to go. so.... These last few weeks have been rough for me. I miss my Love somethin' terrible, other stresses & drama, blahblahblah. Then suddenly for the last week or so I have been ragingly horny. I mean, worse then ever before. It hurts I'm needin it so bad. Oh & trust me, I been puttin my toys to work, they just ain't cuttin it. After I'm all finished I am just ready to go again. We have been pretty sexual people in the past, but nothin' like this has happened before. I literally have never felt urges this strong. I'm feelin all sexy, I know I'm workin' it (ladies, you know what I'm sayin'). I got hit on at a function I attended recently, not once, not twice...but three times. Oh yeah. Of course all very politely turned down, I am a married woman after all. Which only gave me a bigger ego Even a family friend told me (nicley & a bit drunkenly) basically that I am just walking sex LOL So, I get to talk to my Love. I tell him how much I miss him, he says reassuring things, as it is over soon, etc. I tell him about my...ahem...physical statis. I get nothin'. I try flirting a bit, nothin'. I go for the all out "what you thinkin' about??" "you naked". Nothin. The thing about it is that it is a 'game' we play alot. We see who can make the other moan loudest when there are other people around. He asked one last time if I was alright. I told him that I just missed him & been sad. He pipes up with that he has to go & will talk to me later. Okay, okay. I know...he shouldn't have to be worryin' about that sort of stuff & there was probably somethin' else goin on. The kicker is we had an arguement about me not covering it up & tellin' him about my feelings. Just a couple weeks ago, he had a rough patch & I sat through & tried to be as supportive as I possibly could. Its just so frustrating. Hm, guess my question is...if ya wanna chime in...when did your sexual overdrive kick in?? Cause honestly I think that is what it is. Ya know, when a woman hits her prime...when did it happen for you?? Any other comments are appreciated FV ***i realize that maybe this shoulda gone somewhere else....but hey. its a rant for me

I apologize if someone has already posted this, but I just read it & had to share!! MSN News Article Yes, Virginia, there is a G-spot ... but who cares? The G-spot may exist, but all pleasure paths still lead back to the clitoris By Ian Kerner, Ph.D. Sex therapist and relationship counselor TODAYShow.com contributor updated 2:03 p.m. MT, Thurs., March. 6, 2008 Few phenomena in this world are sliced and diced more than the female orgasm — did it happen? Was it good? Where did it come from? Does size matter? Why did one technique work last week, but not this week? A new study is likely to add even more speculation to the mix. Researchers at the University of L’Aquila in Italy have found physical evidence that, yes, Virginia, there is a G-spot. Vaginal ultrasounds of 20 sexually active women found increased thickness in the tissue between the vagina and the urethra — where the G-spot is thought to reside — only in women who reported having vaginal orgasms and not those who reported clitoral orgasms. Dr. Emmanuele Jannini, lead researcher on the study, concluded that some women simply have a G-spot and others don’t. And, consequently, that some women are capable of “vaginal orgasms,” while others are not. Ahoy! Like searching for evidence of the Loch Ness Monster, the existence of the G-spot had been caught on paper. However, before you get a map and make an appointment with your doctor for an ultrasound, a few things need to be considered. In the mythology of female sexuality, a lot of fuss is made over the differences between clitoral, G-spot, blended and vaginal orgasms. The clitoral orgasm is often criticized as being quick and lighthearted, while the others are somehow deemed more serious and substantive, possibly because they include partner-friendly penetration. But a quick study of anatomy reveals that all orgasms are clitoral. The clitoris is the sexual epicenter, an orgasmic powerhouse in which no sensation goes unnoticed. Many people know and love the clitoris as the pea-size bump you can see externally; however, this is merely the tip of the iceberg. The clitoris is actually a vast internal network of parts that extend deep into the pelvis and connect with other internal parts of a woman’s sexual anatomy — measuring about four inches in total! And guess what the clitoris backs right into? The G-spot, which, anatomically speaking, is an area of spongy tissue that surrounds the urethra to protect it during penetration (named for the man who discovered it in 1944, Dr. Ernst Grafenberg). In other words, all roads lead back to the clitoris. What we think of as the G-spot is simply a part of the clitoris. A G-spot orgasm, like all female orgasms, is part of the same fantastic, magical pleasure-network inside of a woman’s body. Trying to separate one orgasm from the other is futile and, more importantly, likely to take you further away from orgasm rather than closer to it. So while the G-spot does indeed exist, I think it’s important for women (and their partners) not to get hung up on distinctions. Enjoy pleasure from wherever it comes. At the end of the day, an orgasm is an orgasm is an orgasm and how you get there is half the fun. Viva la vulva! Ian Kerner is a sex therapist, relationship counselor and New York Times best-selling author of numerous books, including the recently published “Sex Detox: A Program to Detoxify and Rejuvenate Your Love Life.” He was born and raised in New York City, where he lives with his wife, two young sons and plump Jack Russell terrier. Thoughts??

ThorsNymph: LMFAO!!! I should go back & change that...recently aquired myself an...ahem...'value pack' last week, got me a bullet, pocket rocket & traditional vibe by Doc Johnson. Have only tried out the rocket so far (we have to move here soon, not much time with that & the kiddos all alone!!) & wooohoo!! Thnaks for the welcome everyone!!

OOOH!! Forgot to add....Happy Birthday Shypuppy

I just had a bday (yay me lol) & my absolutely fabulous husband got me a Tippmann A-5, complete with remote line, 20 inch barrel, scope with offset & adjustable stock!! He wanted to get me a matching gile suit to go with my new 'sniper rifle' but was kinda worried that I wouldn't like my present to begin with. Such a crazy man lmao Once he heard how thrilled I was with my present he was proud to wave around his bragging rights to all his buddies down range. It wasn't a 'sweet' or typical present, thats is why I think he was worried. But really, if you know me, you know I am in love with stuff like that!! BTW. For those of you who don't know or may be worried LMAO a Tippmann A-5 is a high end paintball marker Guess my point is that it takes all kinds....& get your SO something they would love to have, but never get for themselves!!

I can't believe no one has mentioned "The Perfect F*ck Song" by Moby!! LOL

I will swing me some porn every now & again, its mainly the sounds that get me off though. I am a big reader & my husband has written me a few stories that I can not get enough of!! We also have a few videos of us, me & him, or just one of us separately that help too. You can never underestimate the power of imagination!! That is probably the one that gets the biggest useage.

I suppose it is possible, but at the same time...so what if he does?? With us (my husband & I) we rarely do it alone, we make a thing out of it together. If he did though I would want to know about it just so I could jump in on the fun!! When we are apart is a whole 'nother story LOL There is alot of phone sex, story writing, video watching & single time. Anyways, I havn't quite hit my quota of coffee today so I tend to babble & not make any sense. What I am trying to say is open the line of communication for it. Depending on his thinkin' on the whole thing (its bad,etc) I don't think you could just bust out with it over the mashed potatoes. Maybe one night, all sexy like, tell him you got to thinking about him the last time he was out & you couldn't help yourself...then lead in through there.

Good Evening my friends. I have been struggling with a few choices & I was looking for some input. Mind you this is my first official toy purchase (I know!! Can you believe it??!!) I have always been a manual or shower/tub gal. My husband & I have discussed a few times getting one for myself for when he is deployed, we even shopped online together but we always got...ahem...distracted. So, here I am trying to pick. Unfortunately I can only get one right now (I am sure I will come back for more) I don't want to get anything too 'intimidating', it will be a toy for both me alone & us together. This is his first time with these things as well & seems nervous about the more realilstic ones. I am interested in the LAYAspot It doesn't look the part, very versatile, I love the different levels & its waterproof. This one, the Decadence Mini looks very appealing. I like the velvety feel idea, can used for g-spot & clitoral, plus its waterproof. I like the Natural Contours Liberte same idea, not intimidating, internal & external, 3 levels & a pulse, but NOT waterproof. Finally I hve also looked at the Natural Contours Ultime I like the shape, looks like it could fairly versatile, but again, NOT waterproof & it didn't get very good reviews here. Let us not forget all of the different bullets & eggs!! Which ones do you suggest?? So, please...advise away!!

In all honesty, the movie that gets me the most randy is 300 LMAO It could be the mostly naked people runnin' around, the strong characters that I can relate to, or that amazing sex scene (that is way too short IMO). More then likely it is all of the above. Whew. Guess what im watchin' tonight FloydVixen

hello good forum members!! i have been lurking for awhile & couldnt help but register so i could contribute. bit about me...been married to my sexy military man for 10 years (together for 13) with 4 fabulous children. it has taken me some time to come out of my proverbial sex shell & i am still workin on a few things. an awesome intimate relationship has always been a higher priority for us (hence the 4 kids lol) i am always on the search for more tips, ideas, etc. ya know...to rock his world (& mine!!) FloydVixen