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If I've read this right it sounds like you've got some lost time to make up for. Glad you "woke up". Have fun!!

Congratulations!! A boy boy... I always wanted one of those.

LMAO

Good on you for not giving up! You'll find wise and helpful people here.

I've bought the Nipple Nibbler through TT. Haven't really tried it yet though

This is interesting timing to have asked this question. It's only been 9 or 10 months since things have turned around for my husband and I and toys, TT have played a big part of this. He insists that I should find a way to spread the "good word" and let others know about the marvels of toys, orgasms, all these good things, but I don't think I'm cut out for the job just yet. I never would have talked about sex with anyone before. Talking about it here has made me more comfortable though. Originally I felt like this was a space for me to leave my comfort zone and be whomever I wanted. Now there are a couple of friends (no family) whom I would like to see get involved with TT. The other timely matter is my best friend. She is a beautiful person and we talk about everything but sex. Her husband is very moody and is being a total jerk lately. They haven't spoken to each other in weeks so I think I can safely assume that she hasn't gotten any in weeks either. My husband (who also thinks very highly of my friend) keeps bugging me to tell her about this site or even to buy her her own toy, just give it to her and tell her that we never have to discuss it. I don't know though. She might be mortified. I would like for her, for everyone I care about, to have the great experiences that Hot Husband I have found, but I'm not sure if I can find find a way to share. So, making a short story long, no, I haven't shared with anyone, but there are some I may tell soon. Most people who know me would have cardiac arrest if they knew I was here and talked about such things. I'm beginning to care less though.

Good luck with exams! Have a great summer. Enjoy the beak from school.

Here's an idea that I keep coming back to but I'm not sure how to say it. Probably everyone has had that one awesome time that they like to think back on and it still gives them goose bumps. Share that time: when, where,what made it so awesome.

Having hot sex with your husband in no way makes you a slut. However unprotected sex, even oral, is risky. Hope you were using protection if you don't know the backgrounds of these young men. Also, if you're not absolutely sure that they were of age of consent, that could open up other set of problems. I just advise you to play safe.

Sounds like a tragedy all round.

I forgot about that. That was so funny. You can watch it on Youtube. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p_pmbJpltP4&NR=1

To a point I agree with those of you who said that the unexpected gestures are the best. It's just that you always remember the really big events, like when I gave birth to our children. No card? No flowers? No "I love you? Nothing? But then recently we went a a vacation for just the two of us. He made all the arrangement, made sure the room had a fireplace, packed the toys, candles, music, CD player. It was great and not expected. Trouble is, those really big events are hard to forget because they were big events. The thing I hate most is the question : Should I get you flowers or something? The only right answer to that is, "No, that's OK."

Meg, that was sooo funny!! ThorsNymph and Toy Queen, you have some good ideas. Specifically, I worry about the kids dealing with them. Maybe I could stash an envelope of cash marked "For your therapy" in there with the toys. I made my husband destroy a sex tape right after we made for this same reason. That was probably 15 years ago and now I wish we still had it.

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Do you know what a party line is? It's where several people in the same area share a phone line but have different rings. Everyone secretly listens to each other's conversations on a party line. I was visiting my aunt and I think she must have had the last party line in the country. My then BF phoned me and said, " How about we (go here, do this) for our wedding?" I said, "Is this a proposal?" and he replied, "I guess it is." I could hear other people breathing on the line. It kinda makes a funny story and the kids think it's hilarious, but I secretly wish I could have a do-over that was more romantic.

mmmm--biting-mmm. Dammit husband is away.

As our toy collection grows, I have this nagging worry that, should we meet an untimely demise, someone will have to go through our stuff and - surprise- find our toy stash. Hot Husband says not to worry about it. At least they'll know we had fun. Does anyone else worry or have a solution. I don't worry so much that it stops me from getting more or anything.

1. teacher 2. 2 teenagers 3. one little old dog 3. had my ears pierced as a kid, turns out I'm allergic to metals. no tats 4. almost anything. I think HH was playing music last so probably Bruce Springsteen 5. there's not much i make a point of watching, but I like Ellen if it's on 6. Three Cups Of Tea (I read a lot)

I am a chat room virgin. I suppose this site would be an appropriate place to lose it.

It took me awhile to figure out your name. Clever.

My next gift to Hot Husband is a trip to where ever you can give classes on this!! HH manages but you're the king!

My absolute favourite is O'My Natural. I have very sensitive skin and fragrance allergies and I've never had a problem with this lube. Well, more than never having a problem, I love it!

At an outdoor hotel pool in Key West (Pinky, any chance that was you over in the hot tub?) On a beach in Fiji In a camp kitchen thing at a campground in Idaho (it was very late at night) hmmm, all I can think of for now, but it does give me the travel bug.