Hi, I have the same problem...My husband is the only person I've ever been with, we started dating 6 1/2 years ago, and have been married for almost 5 years. I have never had an orgasm...ever. I have been masterbating for a long time, but I never get anywhere. It feels good, then really good, then nothing. It's like I lose all feeling, and if I try to keep going, it starts to hurt. It SUCKS!!!! I feel frusterated and angry. My husband feels bad, as there is rarely a day that he doesn't cum. I enjoy sex, I have a strong sex drive, I just don't really get anything out of it and it is frusterating beyond belief. I even mentioned it to my dr. and she said "just try more things" How unhelpful can you get???? I have read all of Mikayla's articles, but I just can't make it happen. Soooo, I guess I'm saying I feel your pain lol Kmorn