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Ok, well I'm going to sit down with her dad then go from there with her. LMFAO, tell my parents? I would if I want my mom to ruin it. My mom thinks I only date girls to have sex. I told her several times mom I'm not like that and she just replies, I'm not stupid I know how kids your age are. I was your age too you know, and I know that once you two starting getting hot and heavy that you won't be able to resist and you will have sex. I'm not stupid. It's best I just remain single in my mom's eye. Now I'm not saying the adults are wrong and that I'm going to ignore you ladies but thank you EM. You see how it is. Yes she could she could be playing me but don't shoot down the idea that she could having to hide it. From what I'm seeing her dad wants her to be with someone of LDS faith. I might be wrong, IDK. I will have both of us have an open discussion with her parents, separate of course. Oh just something I would like to point out some of us have parents that as long as you give them what they want you can go do what ever you want to. Like I'm banned from one of my friends but I just tell my mom I'm going to so and so's and she believes me, when I'm going to my friends house and I'm not suppose to be hanging with him. My parents big rule is you live under our roof we pay the bills so you will do what we say or you can find a new place to live.

Did the last sentence of my last post fall on deaf ears he picks her friends. He went as far as kicking her half brother out of their house and she has to address him by his first name. He even has a daughter who he sent to live in Iowa. How the hell do I a Catholic get her protective Mormon father to like me enough so we can date with them knowing? This is worse than with my ex, her parents already liked me as her friend. I'm starting of with dislike. I want to but IDK how to. She told me once shes 21 her dad can't stop her. Got any pointers?

Thanks LL but I need to tell all of it. We weren't dating back on the 4th. we didn't start until august. They don't know that were dating. She hides the ring. I found out after I made that post why her parents dislike me. Her religious beliefs and raising are that of LDS(Mormon). I'm not dis-respecting the religion or being negative I'm just saying that I now know how her ways are and understand what's going on. I stepped out of bounds with her parents. I talked with my girlfriend and told her that I now know how she feels about it and she said it's her dad that hates me. He's very strict and takes things way to far. She told me he picks her friends.

Ok thanks TQ. Ok I won't push her. Thanks. I still don't get why her parents dislike me. We haven't met. I said hi to her mom this past July 4th but that's it.

Thanks. Oh! ok wow didn't think of that. That might be true. That's some serious food for thought. Ok so find out where the line is at? I can do that. Oh I want her to be happy and comfortable at all times(thats my biggest concern with her).

Thanks TQ. That's what I thought. LOL I can run for the hills just which way to the mountains or hills on the planes? LOL LOL JK. SO she probably doesn't want to think about giving up her v-card? I understand. I will back off. No, defiantly not financially ready and we want to have our college degrees first. That way we can focus on school and then the wedding(if it's gets to that).

Suzy) Ok I will talk to her, she is a virgin. It could be somewhere along the lines of being the last kid and daddy's little girl. I'm not judging, it's cause I'm not well educated but it could be something with her religion. Ok I will see if she will tell her feelings on it. I did leave out that when she doesn't want to talk about it she just says idk. Ok so I'm glad to hear she isn't holding it against me. Eminatic) when I gave her the promise ring I told her it's a promise of my love. You're thinking of abstinence rings. Maybe they do hold different meens or I got the meening wrong but I thought promise rings were to symbolize love and commitment to the other.

Ok so I have a girlfriend and she is a great girl, tons in common, brother likes me parents not so much but were working on that. Well we've been together for about 5 months gave her a promise ring we're both really happy with each other. Well she changes subjects or want talk to me when I bring up sex. I have a good guess why. Her brother got his girlfriend pregnant and they weren't planning(he didn't bail, theyre getting married in 2010). My problem is do I just not mention sex around her? She said when she moves out then we'll see but I have a feeling even then she will not want to talk about it. I respect her and see why she wouldn't want to, the fear. Could it be that she is treating me like I treat her when she mentions us getting married? I meen when she brings it up I ask her can we worry about moving in together first? or thats still a ways off. She asked once if I wanted to marry her and I said I hadn't thought that far ahead but it would be nice.

Well it just depends usually me and my family gets up at our own times enjoys our stockings until everyone is up and my oldest sister is over here then we open up presents and tend to either my moms or dads side of the family(someones house) and eat and talk. My mom and I when we are at the store we empty out our change and a dollar or two into the salvation army buckets. Not much but it helps plus money is tight for us around this time. And it gets really tight for me.

I don't like porn myself. Mainly cause I'm not in there scoring myself. When I do watch it though it depends on the porno and who I'm with. I have only watched porn with one person besides being with myself. And when it's him and I we just watch and on my mind is ok I want to masturbate. When it's me and it's two girls I tend to think damn I wish I was in there. If its male female I watch and get some ideas or I remember all the times that I have had sex. If its guy guy I wish it was me in there doing all of it. Usually though I just avoid porn all together.

I hear you Tyger it is sad. I used to have a dog greatest little guy ever. He had a rough life before my family got him. We got him from my tutor. She got him from her parents, who found him abandoned in a gutter. Well they picked him up took him home and had him for a few years. They felt that they couldn't give him enough attention so they gave him to their daughter. Well she was a teacher and she felt bad for him cause she felt she wasn't giving him enough attention, so we gave him to us. From the day we got him till the day we had to put him down(cancer related) he had a great life. Tons of attention, table scraps(not the puny things either) always had a full bowl of food and water, never saw a kennel, just the pound twice(gate blew open) but we went and bailed his butt out. My point is he went from being abused and abandoned to living pertty darn great. He went from a poorly fed pup to a fat toad(not literlly). I think if people would just stop and think and go invest in spaying or neutering everybody would be a lot happier and there would be less homeless pets. Let's just not start taking animals in left and right though, pets do get pricey. Like $50 to bail them out of the pound, $25+ for a grooming ect ect. Shelters are full and expanding their walls to make room for more and they are having troubles doing that. Please get your pets spayed or neutered.

SW, the guard was killed just not on the spot. It is considered he was killed due to people trampling him(unintentionaly beating him with their feet).

So I was watching the news and they brought up black friday, so I was like well I wonder how that went. Turns out customers at a Walmart that had been waiting to get into the store decided to bust down the doors themselves and get their shopping under way cause they couldn't wait. A security guard who was there on duty was just inside the doors and got trampled by the customers as they stormed the Walmart. It is sad to say that the 34 year old guard lost his life moments later at the hospital. Then I hear that at a Toys-R-Us two adult males pulled guns on each other opened fired and both were killed, luckily no one else was shot in their stupidity. So heres what I'm so pissed about. What the hell is with these people?! Are you fucking shitting me?! An innocent guard get trampled cause a group of selfish dumb shits decide to tear the doors cause they couldn't wait and then two guys pull guns and kill one another. What the hell?! Seriously what the fuck has happened to America? I understand stores are putting stuff on sale but do we really have to act like we have no morals, no respect and act like animals? 3 people lost their lives this past friday and only because we can't take our time with our shopping. Oh and another thing the stores provoke this. They have their sales form 5 am-noon. Why not do it all day? I would like to point out to the ravaging animals of black friday that there is Cyber Monday. Works just like black friday only you do it from a computer and it's much more peaceful and non life threatening. I think we need to rethink black friday and make it safer and stores need to beef up security, like hire riot police. I remember last year (not saying this is the only one just the only one I can remember) only one person was trampled. Any ways thats my rant/rave. P.S. I enjoyed I nice settle day on black friday with my girlfriend at the movies then ended our date with lunch at 3 Margaritas. I'm going shopping Monday from my computer.

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So I have now seen the movie Twilight by Stephanie Meyers twice and it is really good. First time I saw it I noticed that I was forceabely holding back a smile over Edward and Alice(characters). Yeah I know ugh the ladies drool over him, now guys? He's hot and so is James(picturing both shirtless LOL). Also I didn't like Bella, just not....cute. But Alice(gulp) let me just boyoyoyoing. Sorry. But yes go see it. then let me know what you think.

Hm ok thanks Tyger. Glad to know that. LOL I wish I could stand up when inserting my dildo. Thanks though.

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Ok so I have been doing anal for awhile and can fit my Dream Man dildo in my ass and I love it. Well I have noticed that I get gassy after using my dildo and it feels like cramping sometimes. Is this natural? Is it avoidable?

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I think it's a good idea. just the set back is the money. how would names be drawn? Not to be mean but it's would have someone trust worthy. I'm not saying me I'm just saying someone who will make sure the drawing is random cause there are a few who would like to be a particular someones secret santa if you know what I meen? If it gets the green light then count me in. Oh we need rules and limits. like price and what is allowed.

I will thanks pappy. She wants to move out cause her dad is abusive verbally and somewhat physically and her mom won't stand up to him for fear of the same thing. She wants her parents to divorce and so does her sister but they won't. The reason she wants to move in with me is cause I treat her well and protect her where I can. I'm going to be the one who stands up to her father either once the divorce happens or once she is off at a dorm in college. She has talked to her parents but they won't listen to her. She has tried bringing up things but her parents don't do anything or they do the complete opposite. E.G. when ever she gets sick she asks to stay home to rest and they force her to go to school. She can't stand them having sex when she is awake and they know she is awake, they just think she can't hear them. when she makes plans to hang out her dad tries to stop the plans and make her stay home. Her dad won't help her with school. She has asked him twice to come in and help build the sets to the theatre shows but he says that running for house rep is more important to the family(that was last year and this). She turns to me cause I'm the only person besides her cousin and sister(who both work and don't live close) who keeps my mouth shut around her parents when she wants me to and also I listen and give advice. Whenever she goes out with girls she doesn't invite me and I'm fine with that but when it's boys and girls or a guy she invites me cause I make her feel safe. I personally don't know if I can share a place with her. It's a bit weird to me with me being sexual with men and women.

Froggy, thanks we will look into that soon. Ok don't have her masturbate. It's not that she can't talk to them it's that she won't. She can bring it up with her mom at any point cause her mom told her that when she gets ready to become sexually active to let her mom know so she can get her on b/c. For some reason she wont tell her mom. I will do what you said and repeatively tell her to go talk to her mom. I agree pappy Tyger has a great point. and I'm not going to dodge it and I'm not going to say that won't happen. I know damn well it could. Right now sex hasn't come up. She's distracted with school and the campainge(stupid fucking dad). Plus the new subject that has come up is her and I being roommates. It's a good idea and a not so good one all at the same time.

Pappy if I could I would explain to you why I cant get abstinence through to her. I've tried but she is extremely stubborn. I might not be the right person but right now I'm the only who is talking to her about sex. If I don't talk to her about it then the worst could happen much worse than if I do talk to her(hope that makes sense). I will just take her to PP. and help the best I can. PP is the best I can help so that is where I'm sending her. Honestly Tyger me defending her like that didn't cross my mind now that you have helped me understand what you ment. That never occured to me that, that might happen. great point and now I see what you meen and that could happen. I hope it wont but there is a good chance it will. No worries Tyger you haven't hurt my feelings and that is why I have come here for help. Like I stated before I know a bit more than her but not as much my fellow members on here, plus that is why I'm going to take her to planned parenthood. The best I can do is make sure she gets fully informed and make sure she sets ground rules and sticks to them. The biggest thing I'm going to stress is always use a condom. No matter what the situation always use a condom. I will make note of when she gets her first box and make sure that even if they aren't used that 6 months before that expiration date or even sooner that she gets a new box and tosses out the old. also I will make sure she knows that before use to check the expiration on the condom if its the guys and that if he stored it in his wallet to use one of hers.

It's ok sun. I understand and youre not being closed minded. but should I tell her she should start so that way she can get stretched? I just had sex with a girl who has sex before but when I would penetrate her she would moan oww. I pulled out but she said no I like it. She was tight. My first girl wasn't that tight. So should be start stretching so it's not so painful even if her first guy isn't that big like me.(I'm not big just average) I'm not sure I follow Tyger. Sorry Shariana but her doctors are allowed to tell her parents. I just started to go to a new doctor and one of her questions was do I smoke? Before I asked I said will you tell my parents? She said being that you're 18 my patient info is to remain between her and I and that if I was under 18 that would be different. School nurses and counselors will end up telling her parents too. Thanks for reminding me of planned parenthood. I already told her if she wants me to not tell her parents then she is to follow this. She must talk to her sexually active friends for help, to learn form our mistakes and heed our advice. I may not be an adult-adult or an expert but I do know a bit more than her and I have you all of you great people to help me. Thank you. I just hope she waits.

I will have her read articals on here but she is too young to become a member. I forgot planned parenthood. Thank you. There is one thats in walking distance now that I remember it so that helps. She's only 16 so her parents have the right to know and her doctors aren't allowed yet to keep it hush hush. You have to be 18. I am going to make sure she knows to always carry a couple condoms when she goes to have sex. I will make sure she understands STD's to the fullest. I'm going to have her plan on what to do if there is a whoops. She says she's ready but I think she will be more ready at 18. Should I go over masturbation?