1st off- CONGRATS!!! 2ndly- Pfffff that makes me mad because it reminds me of my own family and that there are other families like that out there.... DO YOUR OWN THANG GURL! You are worth it and screw them if they don't like it! Seriously, like everyone else said: It's your day...do what you want and just be proud of what you have accomplished. Your bratty sister will have her own day and major kudos to your husband! He reminds me of my brother-in-law!!