Mi wife and I have been married for 32 years. I am 58, she 56. I love her very much and she loves me. Lately we have been arguing moe than ever and more often than not the topic is sex. I tend to ne very passionate and erotic during our lovec making, She on the other hand is almost the oppiosite, rather cold and almost totally devoid of passion. I usually perform oral sex on her to several orgasms. She has never performed it o my and absolutely refuses. Recntly, I have had a hard time reaching climax because frankly, I find her demeanor less than stimulating. Lately, I have been preoccupied with the thought that my wife does not enjpy sex with me or at all. I have attempted to discuss the issue with her calmly, but she becomes defensive and another major argument typically follows. It has gotten to fe point where sex has become a source of frustration for the two of us. Although, she could do without sex indefinitely, I have a fairly active libido and need it often. Help.