i posted a blog not to long ago about wanting to try anal and asked how to talk to my husband about it and so finally i did and he has always been kind of weird about talking about sex but he basically said that it was cool and he'd like to try too. but of course that he would be NOT be doing any of the receiving and so that night i assumed that maybe we would have a little bit of a go at it and see how each of us liked it. and i didn't even mean like having him use his penis but maybe a finger or a toy because i've never really tried anal. but while we were messing around and having sex not once did he mention it or do anything like he was intrested. what should i do i don't want to be in the heat of the moment and say "stick ur finger in my butt" that just seems kind of like a mood killer. is there anyways i can sort of suggest it without totally ruining the mood?