Curiousity is GRAND!..but you need to be sure you are secure as well as him/her..as if you know they would be uncomfortable or if you had one doubt that they couldn't handle it..you must let it go...I had an all clear..there were four of us..2/2..and it was given the green light..and two days later it sunk in..we were in the same room ..both were "taken care of"..and all knew where loyalty's were..it still wasn't enough..now friends are suffering..but I still know..and he does to..who means the world to whom..Jus' ready yourself for the worst..and be prepared to deal with it..even if all looks well..