i too was in your shoes once, this is what i want you to do, not once, but over and over again. buy a new nighty, buy some wine, send the kids to grandmas, take a long relaxing bath, put lotion onmake sure your skin is soft,put your make-up on, fix your hair sexy, take a glass of wine to the bath with you, relax.... put your new nighty on, make sure the lights are on low, let him see you all dolled up, be sexy, think sexy..... use your imination honey, you are a woman, don't let time drag you down. be creative, seduce him! so why can't you do the things you used to do, why not do things you've never done, go to bed naked, leave the lights on, make love like you just can't get enough of him, you take the lead, just let him lay or sit and enjoy you doing all the work, he may be shocked,but before long you'll see him watching you at differnt times, he'll be wondering what you will be up to next. if you need ideas watch a sexy movie during the day while he's at work, try some of the moves. what have you got to lose? sounds like your at your wits ends as it is.........