i understand where your coming from i'm the same way and also a virgin. the best advice i can give you is that you can not let the past dictate you future because if you let that happen you will not be able to trust anyone and you may let mr. right slip by. don't get me wrong i'm not saying to totally forget the past, i'm just saying to remember the past but don't group up all men in the same category as the ones you have dealt with and found out that they where just with you to get in your pants. you sound like you got your head on your shoulders so just keep your head up and don't worry mr. right is out there and don't force your self to settle on a frog when you know your worth a prince. Tony