this is a question for eveyone how do you over come the fear of talking to a girl? i have been burnt by so many people in my life that i dont trust anyone and i have built up so many walls that i have trouble woth trust. family and freinds and girlfriends so i don't know how to over come it. how do i regain the trust for people? even though i am with freinds and they treat me like part of them, for so reason i feel like im an outcast and i can't trust them. i have a messed up history is that part of the reason ? i just want to be able to trust someone and get on with my life and i can't. idk if its something from my past thats haunting me know or ianything? i just want to feel like i'm normal,