Penthouse Letters!!!!! It is also a great one to help bring up fantasies and may loosen her up to talking about them! They have them either in magizine form or paperback! We use them once in a while for fun and is one of the big reasons my wife started talking about her fantasies! As for her wanting to watch girl on girl porn, it sounds like she has a fantasy and doesn't know how you would take it and is afraid(like you said) to admit it to herself! Like I said, be patient and not pushy about all of this. Slow is the way to go. If you go fast, it may push her towards not being able to talk out her fantasies for a long time! Little things add up over a long period of time and will make her more willing to talk to you about these things!! Best of luck with all of this and hope some of our advice helps the two of you! Peace, Mark