This is my first post, and I would like to say that being able to talk openly about sex is a great thing so I am thankful that this forum exists. My wife and I have ordered a few things and I have printed off some of the articles which were very helpful. I am not exactly sure why I am here, my wife and I have drastically different sex drives and it is not that we do not enjoy our time together, we do, but I usually feel unsatisfied. I think that sex is absolutely fantastic and beautiful in all of its facets and I am always up for anything, normal or slightly kinky. My wife enjoys this too, however at a much lower interest level. We have been married for quite awhile but have always had this problem. Whoever started the idea that you should wait until after you are married to have sex should be keelhauled. Perhaps someone out there has a similar issue, I could use some advice.