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Thank you littletornado. So far so good on that address.

I had trouble submitting my application. Every time I hit submit I got a "Internet Explorer can not display web page". Anyone else have this problem? Also when I tried to email Meg I revieved an email failure notice. Any suggestions?

Yes, it is a dipilatory. It works AMAZINGLY well. I am a NICU nurse and interact with pregnant women all the time that can't reach to shave. I turn them all on to the "MAGIC" and always hear back how great it is. You don't have to see what you are doing, no nicks, no burning (okay, it *is* possible if left on too long). It removes EVERYTHING! No stuble or patches left behind. It does have a strong perm smell (nostalgic for some , but it washes right off.

Wow! Thanks for the responses girls and for the link. That was truly nice of you to share That is going above and beoyond the call of duty. No wonder I like this site so much, you guys are awesome!

After reading every post on every forum on this site I think I finally found the answer! You just do not ship DVD's to Utah correct? Now to start shopping... I do have one more question/comment however, there do not seem to be many (if any) reviews for your board games. This makes it difficult to find the right game for the right situation. Would you be interested in a reviewer for the games? I know I would be a willing and enthusiastic reviewer, and have many friends that would be "game" to play with me. What do ya say? Where can I inquire?

I will join your PORN RUNNERS! I swear Utah is so lame. Mesquite (a Nevada border town) opened a porn shop about 10 years ago and the predominant religion here in UT picketed it, took down Utah license plate numbers and harassed the people that shopped there until it closed down. People here are so closed minded. I am sorry, porn does not start a crime spree! Just because I want to watch porn does not mean you have to. SHEESH! So, anyone live in Mesquite and want to do a handoff?

We go through phases of both. It is my hang up though, not his. I ususally am more turned on during my cycle though. I absolutely will not let him go down on me though (again my hang up, not his). I am a light bleeder and always shower before and after. There rarely is any mess for us thankfully.

Do you have a couple friend that she trusts that you can ask to bring it up to her? This is how I was introduced and even then it took them some persuading. I was too timid to even consider toys. Either way, definitely let her browse with you, or even ask her to pick one she might want to try and surprise you with it. I highly suggest the bullet to all beginners. I even buy them for my friends who have not yet been enlightened.

I sent an email asking whether you ship to Utah. The first reply was "We do not ship DVD's to Utah". So I asked whether you ship your other items and was told no to that as well. Then I have heard rumor you do ship to Utah, just not DVD's. Which is it? I have money burning a hole in my pocket just looking for somewhere to put it! LOL! Thanks!

Any Magic users here? Or what is your method of hair removal? I discovered Magic a few years ago thanks to another forum and haven't looked back since. I am suprised how little it is known about though. I have turned on all of my girlfriends to its "Magic" and am just wondering if anyone here uses it. For those that don't know it is actually made for facial hair for african american men. It is in the mens shaving section and comes in powder form in a can or a cream in a tube. My girlfriends and I have differing opinions of which works better. The cream is easier and less messy, but the powder by far is superior with hair removal for me. It removes the hair completely and easily without burning. It can even be used on the inner labia, but I have heard reports of it burning if left on too long there. Anyone else?

We had a major fight right after our wedding. We did actually have sex though I don't remember a thing about it. Now many times before and after I remember every detail. So I am on the band wagon of it not being a mind blowing experience.

LOL! My 2 year old calls himself CoCo. I love it! DH hates it when we call him that though, but I have caught him calling him that once or twice. BTW, you may or may not know this but apparently Coco means "cunt" in Haitian (haven't verified this for myself, just been told that by a friend who adopted her daughter from there and *was* going to name her that!) To answer the question our name for his member is Tom, as in "every Tom, Dick and Harry". Other than that we call eachother Hun, Honey, Sweety, and Sweatheart. Lame I know!

I see that you live in Utah. It is a law here if there is a domestic dispute where someone was physical (i.e. breaking your stuff) they have to arrest that person. You may not want to go that avenue, but if you are truely affraid of him the law is on your side. I know it is so easy for us "outsiders" to tell you to leave him, we don't have the emotional ties to him that you do. But truely, when everyone in your life, including strangers are telling you to get out, you really need to think about it seriously. Good luck to you. Keep us updated.

Hey Suzy, I emailed them and the first response was "We do not ship DVD's to Utah". Then I sent another email to clarify if they ship other items besides DVD's and the asnwer was "No". Maybe I should find someone on here from Utah and see what their experience is? Thanks for the input. Ring Ding Diddles sound interesting, I will have to go to the craft store.

I have to say for me the more I orgasm the more I want to. And the longer it has been between orgasms I could care less when I have another one. I don't think my body would ever "forget" how to orgasm, but I sure don't feel the NEED to orgasm like I do when I am having them frequently.

Bunny: I truly could have written your post (just switch the religion). We also got married at 18 and 19 and with the whole "forbidden" aspect now gone, I was no longer into it. I also always had an orgasm once warmed up to the idea, but it was *never* instigated by me. I can say I have had my ups and downs with sex (mainly downs). Word for word your post describes us to a "T". I just wish I had done something actively to change the situation earlier like you are. What has helped me was talking to friends (who enjoy sex) and actually making it a competition (in my own mind, I would *never* tell them!). I also had made a pact with myself to buy a new toy or try something new every two weeks to a month to keep it exciting. Unfortunately for me I live in a lame state where you can not order anything online, and there are no toy shops around, so that went out the window. I have to say though have you heard the saying "Sleep begets sleep"? Well Sex truely begets Sex, or should I say orgasm begets orgasm? The more I orgasm, the more I want to. And let me tell you, it has been great for our marriage. We have always had a good marriage, but it is truely great when you have a healthy active sex life. I am a newbie myself to discovering my sexuality, but if I can help in anyway let me know, as I have truly "been there done that."

I guess I should introduce myself since I plan to become a frequent member. I have been married to my high school sweetheart for nearly 12 years. We are pretty routine in our love making (sorry I am not yet comfortable using "fucking" yet, but maybe one day). We are pretty quiet with each other when it comes to our sex life. We don't talk about self masturbation (and I am pretty sure DH as no idea I even do). He just barely admitted to me that he does on a rare occasion. My best friend introduced me to a vibe about 5 years into our marriage. I felt "toys" were taboo, after all, if you are in a loving relationship there is no need for "outside" help (this includes masturbation). I was happy to find this new excitement, but a little self conscious. I rarely asked DH to use it on me (and God forbid never "in" me) as I thought he would feel inadequate, and at the time I never used it alone. Once we bought some cheap porn, it was in bad taste and DH and I both were self conscious watching it together. That is about the extent of our sexual habits. I have always felt like I am holding back. We are very quiet during sex besides a few stifled moans and groans. We never talk dirty to each other, I would love to, but feel self conscious doing so, and worry he will think it is strange. The closest I have come are a few text messages telling him I want him, to which he laughs awkwardly. When we were first together he asked to explore anal and I told him maybe later. When later came I told him no. Now I would like to try (both he and I) but I think he would be shocked and not want to after all these years. I think he may be scared if I told him the things that really go through my head. I am hoping to over come some of my fears and insecurities and that is why I am here. I just worry after all these years it may not be possible. So in a nutshell that is me and what I am hoping to gain from this site.

I have to agree with Cybele here. I have been with my one and only for nearly 12 years and am just recently even touching myself during sex and feel "wrong" doing so. I feel like he will think he is not doing it "right". We do not talk about self masturbating at all. He just recently (I am talking 2 days ago) even admitted to me he on "occaision" masturbates. I know he does/has due to evidence, and one time when we were first married I saw him (though he to this day has no idea). Looking back at it now I think it turned me on, though at the time felt like I wasn't pleasuring him enough. I know he would have been mortified had he known. He does not know that I masturbate on occaision, and I am not sure how he would take it. I still feel ashamed of it at this point, though I am trying to be more comfortable with my sexuality. This site is a real eye opener. I am very glad to have come across it, and hope to be as open as a lot of you with my hubby in the future.

Hi, Newbie here and very glad I found this site. I am looking for some exciting games to play with hubby. Also I would like some to play with a group of friends to get the sexual tension going for later (nothing physical involved) One downside, I live in Utah and they have a stupid law that prohibits me from ordering online. There are no stores here either. I live 1.5 hrs from Las Vegas so I could go there to pick up something, unless you have any ideas who may be able to ship to Utah. Thanks!