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That's HOT! And you do have a lovely ass.

Well, thank you. I haven't even gotten to look at all of the different sections of the forum yet, but I'm workin' on it.

Heh heh! I didn't mean to get too carried away or anything like that, y'know.

Wow. whitefang, I can't add anything totally original at this point, but you do have an amazing body...absolutely beautiful!

And another one, totally different- lying down, missionary style, but raise your legs straight up in the air, resting on both sides of my chest...and when I get inside you, you cross your ankles together around the back of my neck, and you use them to pull me down further when I push into you. In that position, I can reach down and hold your ass, and squeeze it, and stroke my thumbs in toward your pussy lips to massage them, while we're... Ummm, yeah. Just like that!

I've gained a special affinity for doggystyle, just in the past couple years. When standing, I love to hold one hip/waist, and reach around to her front and stroke her tit on the other side while we're going at it. I also like to put my fingers in my mouth and get them wet before I start stroking the nipple like that, too. As far as lying down (or close to it, anyway), I like her on her knees and elbows, with her forearms and hands flat, and ass pointed up in the air a little bit...I like to squeeze both of her hips or the cheeks of her ass while thrusting it into her. Or reaching around with one hand and stroking her lips or her clit, so close to where my dick is pushing up and down inside her. I also love it when she reaches underneath and strokes my balls, in that position. Holy hell! Yeah, if you wanted to make me cum like a wildcat, that'd be a good way to do it.

I like it a lot, but I haven't done it in quite a few years, actually. I can understand that it wouldn't be such a thrill if you do have really small breasts. And as far as my own turn-on is concerned, it doesn't matter to me whether a woman has really big breasts, or really small, or anywhere in between- there are things I like about all of them, regardless of size! What I like best is when a woman is into it, if she started stroking her nipples in the middle of it...or if she wanted me to. Her head tilted back, and eyes closed, and just loving it. That's the best, as far as I'm concerned. Oh, or if she's more attentive to the big rod sliding up and down the middle of her chest. There's nothing wrong with that, either!

And I love pleasing a woman like that, just as much. Describing the philosophy I have about it is sort of odd, maybe, but to me, the absolute ideal is when we BOTH enjoy getting each other off, so much. What I mean is that I always want it to be so good for her, and I love it when I learn that she's obviously got her own ideas about what she wants to do with me- or TO me, or whatever. I can't even describe how much I love it when I can feel how hot I've gotten her- and it's not an ego-driven thing. It's just that I want it to be an amazing experience for her. It's something that makes me feel exponentially hotter for her, myself. And everybody knows that when you're both that hot for each other, that's when the real electricity begins. Sorry, I guess this thread has sort of been hijacked away from its original purpose. I'm just glad that I'm in a place where I can talk about these things freely. I have ONE friend who I can always talk about these kinds of things with (and she can with me, too, of course). And she's the same person who told me about this board! Haha...so...it's all good. Thanks, everybody.

Hahaha...I have one of those, too. Comes in handy (man oh man, isn't that a double entendre?) when I have an urge, right in the middle of the weekday. I found that just about all of my posts so far have been in the oral section; think I'm gonna go check out some other things!

I haven't read this whole thread, but I have to say that I LOVE kissing after oral. Oral sex is such an intimate thing to me in the first place, and I feel really close to a woman after she does it to me...and I love it when she feels just as close to me after I give it to her. I was with a girl one time who was SHOCKED that I kissed her in the mouth right after she had finished me off. I just felt really close to her, and I wanted to. But then after I made her cum with my tongue, she wouldn't let me get near her mouth until I had brushed my teeth. Oh, well. I guess if some people have hang-ups about it, that's their bag, but I just don't; I love it. Hmmmm, I like it when she saves a little bit for me to share with her, too...that turns me on like you wouldn't believe. Or if she has a little left on her lip, or cheek, or something like that, I like to lick it off and put it in her mouth with my tongue. (hmmm, in her mouth or anywhere else she'd like it to be). Guys, if you're getting grossed out or something, you know, please!! There's nothing wrong with being turned on by your own cum. I mean, it's YOURS. (I don't get turned on by anyone ELSE's, no. But a woman who gets yours, and saves an extra little prize for you at the end- THAT is erotic).

Exactly what I was going to say! I'm sorry it happened like that, seriously. Those specific things you described doing are...well, ummm...let's say they got me excited, just sitting here! As far as advice for what to do in the future, you've definitely got room to defend yourself if he accuses you of anything unfair, as far as BJ's are concerned. I mean, you studied about it, and everything. I think that's so sweet.

Ahhh, I see. When you said that you had no idea what was coming next, I thought maybe it was totally out of blue or something, but...hey, right on, right on...it's ALWAYS good to be talking about something sexual! Heh heh... ...especially when it is sincere; that's the best.

Yeah, it definitely was! She absolutely deserved to be told. And then, of course, I returned the favor on her...and it was pretty nice, too! (I like to give it sometimes even more than receiving it).

I was going to say it's a little odd that he picked that particular moment to tell you that, instead of...well, just a different time, I don't know! Like maybe soon after you had finished. Whatever the case, though, yeah, I think there's never a bad time to tell a woman that she's great at oral. I really enjoyed giving a compliment to a girl one time who was actually sort of sheepish about it (she said, "I've just never known if I was very good at it", after she had just brought me to shooting in her mouth, and she swallowed it all...and I kissed her deep in the mouth, and told her it was incredible!).

I can't guarantee 'interesting', but I can guarantee honesty. I just figure that a lot of the people who are here (including me, now) are here either because they identify so strongly with what gives them pleasure, and they're here to share about it, or they're seeking some kind of help, because of all of the far-reaching psychological ramifications that physical intimacy holds. But enough of therapy hour... Aside from that, it's just fun to talk about it with like-minded people. To me, there is nothing more beautiful in the world than a beautiful woman. I've been very lucky to have some unbelievable experiences- both physical and emotional...and it's all about having a real outlet for that kind of thing. So thank you.

I am, too! Thank you, everybody.

So this is my second post (gotta watch out for that first one, it's a doozie!). A very dear friend of mine hipped me to this site, and I'm glad she did. I look forward to posting and getting to know some more people. Thanks for having me!

Sweet! This might become a dubious first post for me, but here goes- because I like the idea of being tied just about as much as I do being the dominant one- just depends on the person, I guess. But the idea of trust is paramount- it is the most important thing, to begin with, for whoever is in the submissive position. I am not into pain, really at all (maybe just a TINY little bit, but only very briefly, to heighten the pleasure aspaect- and no toys or tools!! And that goes for what I would do to a woman, also- what two bodies can do with each other, to each other, is quite enough, i think). I do have a fantasy about having a perfect blow job done on me, lying down, and she reaches underneath and squeezes my ass, hard, just as I start to shoot it in her mouth...or one hand squeezing my ass and another holding my balls, sort of firmly, at the point of orgasm. Or maybe digging the fingers of both of her hands into my belly, when I cum. But that's really the extent of the 'pain' that I'm into. As for what I would do for a woman- I would like to start at your feet, with my hands...and my face not too far away- massaging the lower part of your legs, slow and deliberate...kissing and licking slowly up the insides of your knees, while my hands are relaxing all of your muscles with their touch, as I go up further...and spending a good deal of time on the insides of your thighs...working my hands up to your hips and squeezing a little bit around them...sliding one hand under you, to hold one side of your ass, while the other hand's thumb is on top of you, stroking inward and further inward, toward your pussy...and still licking and sucking, a little harder, on the inside of your thigh...and moving my head up, parting your sweet, wet lips with my tongue, and I start stroking your clit back and forth with two fingertips while I'm eating you...and you're writhing and rocking from side to side, and moaning a little bit, but you can't really move, from being tied up...getting your pussy all over my face, and feeling your sweet honey sliding down my throat...all of this has made me so hard that I can't take it any more- I get off of you and untie just one leg, so that I can roll your hip up on that side, so that one leg is sort of crossed over the other one, that's still straight and tied up. And I get up on my knees and squat down in front of you, pushing my dick up inside you, and we start to fuck...I reach my hand between your legs and get my fingers wet with your juice, and then I reach up and start stroking your tits with it...getting them both a little wet and sticky...and then I concerntrate on just one, stroking it, stroking your hard nipple with my fingertips...stroking, squeezing, pushing...fucking...until we both cum. Yeah, that's about all.