I don’t know if I am being too sensitive, but I can’t to date someone who misunderstands my sexuality. I see myself as very sexual, and the best partners were able to recognize my enthusiasm. What turns me on is when they compliment me!
The worst partners were the ones who didn’t get me and would jump to conclusions, like assuming that someone is a virgin at 32 when they’re experienced. Or, assuming that a woman is willing to sleep with anything when she’s picky. I am direct with partners. I find that no matter how much you explain something to someone, they don’t always understand.
People say ignore someone’s dumb comment, but these comments kill any developing sexual attraction I have for a person. It’s sad when someone doesn’t realize that their comment is anti-seductive.
Is anyone similar? Would you date someone who stuck their foot in their mouth about your sexuality?