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  1. receiving oral doesnt do anything for me...its actually a bit of a turnoff.

    I used to feel this way, but that's only b/c the guy wasn't doing it right. He kept sticking his tongue inside of me where I didn't feel anything. I prefer to be tongued exactly on the clit.

  2. OK, here is the short of it.....

    women love foreplay!, and that goes for oral sex too. Paying attention to everything else aside form the hot button is a huge turn on, pay attention (touching licking) to the places that are least likely to be sexual in a mans eyes, she'll adore you for it. Lavishly lick, gently suck the whole area. with a only long slow licks every so often, from beginning to end, a some attention oh her clitoris, will build up sexual energy. Try to wait until she's practically begging you for it; And if you want to be god....... give her a combination g-spot/oral clitoral orgasm.

    I will say the first time my Hubby did this the combination was different and I couldn't fully enjoy it..... But, now WOW!

    All you learners need to give us feed back on your experiences. We love success stories! :)

    You said it best....I love having my neck and ear nibbled, and having my back caressed, and I like licking a man there too as well.

  3. Thanks Kama. So the gradual build-up and anticipation are the critically important factors? Making you yearn is an actual need?

    Pretty much. I enjoy the sensation of starting out being touched, and knowing that things will gradually lead to the actual oral sex..but not straight out rushing into it. It's like eating dessert in the end.

    So can one of you wonderful ladies explain what's up psychologically here? A lot of people don't appreciate that the brain is the biggest sex organ.

    It's hard to say what exactly is going on..I don't know how to put it in words. It's like how you get a wrapped present..You're so excited to know what's in there and to open it up, instead of someone just giving it to you unwrapped. It's not as fun?

    Hope that makes sense.

  4. This part turned me on the most...Teasing at it's best that would make me go crazy, lol.

    Now stand behind her. Begin to kiss her neck softly. Nibble the ear lobes. Use your hands to caress her hips, butt, inner thighs. Cup her magnificent breasts. She is still fully dressed, but not for long. She should be pressing her butt against your groin.

    Noticed that you are in control, but you are doing what she wants. You are reading her mind. Big Turn On!

    Time to undress her. You got an armchair in the living room? Head to it. Have her sit down so you can gallantly relieve her of those unnecessary garments. As you reveal her body, you are telling her how great everything looks and feels. Once she is naked, get naked yourself, and then kneel in front of her, pressing your chest up against her bush as her legs pass either side of you. She is reclining comfortably. Kiss her tummy side-to-side, up-and-down. Take your time.

    Next, is boob spa day. Stroke the outside of her breasts with your hands. Then stroke over the top just barely caressing the nipple on the way over. Yeah, you are torturing her. Is she complaining? Yes, because she needs your wet, warm mouth over one of her aching, hard nipples...NOW! You softly suck and release one of her nipples for a while, sometimes running your tongue around the aeriola. Then repeat on other breast.

  5. I dunno Tyger, I wouldn't say that's a female thing in general. Personally, I have absolutely NO problem staying uninvolved, but I have been with men who DID.

    This has been my problem in the past, which is why I don't do no- strings attached sex anymore. I don't want to deal with the guys getting attached and not being able to let go. There are other reasons why I gave up on casual sex(such as wanting love/emotional connection to go with it), but there are guys that can get clingy and addicted to you too.

    My FWB turned into a disaster. I knew how to strictly see the guy as a good friend, but it looks like he wanted more than that. Some casual hook-ups of mine have definitely been PHYSICALLY satisfying/fun, but there was still the feeling of emptiness that lingered on after it was done.

  6. 1) Just b/c a guy says he doesn't care about a woman's past doesn't mean he's telling the truth. ;) He can use your past against you in the future or he may say "I don't care" just to get on your good side.

    2) Don't try to fall in love with someone that doesn't love themselves. Wish that person all the best in life, but it will be a tough relationship.

    3) Don't FORCE yourself to fall in love or become attracted to someone, even if everyone is telling you that someone is perfect for you. The more you force it, the harder it becomes. Attraction/love is something that comes naturally, whether we like it or not.

    4) Always trust your instincts, even if people tell you that you're being paranoid or silly. Your instincts can prevent you from making a big mistake in dating.

  7. dont give awesome head.. just maybe good.

    * dont want it all the time either.

    Really? Then, why do some guys complain about "women not having as high sex drives"?

    I hope that's not true, b/c I dream about my surprising my future significant other with awesome head when he least expects it. I get told I look like a nice and "prudish" girl on the outside, but I want to surprise him in the sack...ow ow..

  8. I've had a 3-some with 2 guys, but it wasn't as great as I thought it would be. When I masturbate to a fantasy, it feels really good. But, when it comes true, it's not as good as I pictured it in my head. :lol:

    I was young and naive when I had this 3-some though, so maybe I was just nervous. Let's just say the two guys I did it with weren't necessarily the "right guys" to do it with. I met them off the internet (crazy, I know) and they weren't my type. I did it for the experience and the high.

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