[Is it common to watch porn with your wife?]

I am not married but I have watched it with a male partner. It’s fun sometimes .

[Is it too early to marry at the age of 25?]

I think it’s fine. Some cultures expect you to be married by your 20’s. If you’re happy and it feels right, it’s your choice. 

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Edit.

 

[Ladies, How Often Do You Preform Oral? (or Men How Often Do U Get It?)]

Every time I get intimate. A sex session without me giving oral is a waste of time. Giving oral is the highlight to me. 

[tell the truth! does size matter?]

I have discovered that large and wide penises hurt me, even though some people say that a woman’s vagina can accommodate anything. 

 

Average sized fits fits me better.  I don’t mind small either. I agree with wanabig. Pain is no fun 

 

[HELP!! I need sex but hubby does not]

I am sorry that this is rough. I have been in the same boat where my drive is higher than the guy! It sucks to not want to dump him bc he’s a good guy. 

 

I wonder is he stressed or depressed about something? It might have nothing to do with you. Maybe ask him  what turns him on right now. 

["Just because you get intimate with men doesn't mean that you can't be gay."]

I was just thinking how I miss growing up in the 1990’s, when the definition  of gay/lesbian was clear and simple. I think some people now these days in 2018 make it a bit too complicated.  All of these complicated definitions don’t help each person. 

["Just because you get intimate with men doesn't mean that you can't be gay."]

Thanks for the reply, tyger. Being reminded that only we know who we are helps a lot.  

 

[Green tea ice cream]

Hmm I like the ones I get at restaurants. 

 

I wonder how the haagen daaz tastes?

[Not having a good day today]

Edit. 

["Just because you get intimate with men doesn't mean that you can't be gay."]

8 minutes ago, Crazy Cat said:

 

Glad you have reached an understanding of who you are Kama. Don’t waste time with bitterness towards that therapist. She is not worth you wasting your energy on.

Thanks! Sorry, I had to vent. I am all good now.  

["Just because you get intimate with men doesn't mean that you can't be gay."]

I just want to vent about this. If I try to explain this situation, I HATE when people try to suggest that I may like women again. No thanks. 

 

[When your boyfriend doesn’t like to give facials: Now what?]

He does see me as a very classy lady, so it may have been confusing to him that I revealed this.  

 

[What disappoints the most in sexual encounter?]

A bad attitude. You’re out to hook up with someone and they say something mean, without even realizing that they’re asshole-like. 

[The honest truth]

I have known some drunk people who didn’t speak the truth. They would say stupid things that they later realized was false. I have been drunk and said things that I didn’t mean.  Everybody is different though. Maybe some people do speak the truth when drunk. 

 

Sorry youre feeling bad. 

[Are You Capable Of Separating Love From Sex?]

I have a question for others.

 

Would you say that an emotional connection can still be different from falling in love? I experienced emotional attraction to former sex partners, but I wasn’t in love with them. Falling in love to me is something on a very different level. I may have kept my guard up with certain sex partners. 

[When your boyfriend doesn’t like to give facials: Now what?]

1 hour ago, innovation said:

my wife loves facials , and i love giving her one . i think he should try it once its very hot an sensual to me , but if he doesnt like it after trying it then i wouldnt pursue it any longer . but if he tries it once i bet he will want to do it some more .

True. Someone can like it after they try it. 

 

I will try that. He did have a big smile on his face after I asked him to face-fuck me and I swallowed him. His last girlfriend wasn’t into giving him blowjobs. 

[When your boyfriend doesn’t like to give facials: Now what?]

I think it’s hot and amazing. 

[When your boyfriend doesn’t like to give facials: Now what?]

1 hour ago, Kinkster said:

I have never been a fan of facials, but when my wife wanted to try it, I gave her one.

still not something I want to do so much, but now and then she wants to, so....splat splat splat! Important aspect of sex, is pleasing each other....so....I’m easy!

How did it feel for you when you gave her one? 

[What would you do if a date asks you if you’re a prude?]

On 1/5/2018 at 5:44 PM, square said:

I think I would be put off by a comment like that, come up with a diplomatic and polite way to say "go F yourself," and then severe contact.  To me, that is more than just some immaturity, it is indicative of a dickheaded personality that will always be dickheaded.

Thanks. I was put off too, but wasn’t sure if I was being too sensitive. 

 

[When your boyfriend doesn’t like to give facials: Now what?]

I told my boyfriend (who I have known for awhile, we started out as friends) that I like getting facials. I was hesitant to tell him, since he told me that he’s a conservative man from a traditional family. He told me recently that he doesn’t like facials that much. I asked him why. He’s not sure.  But, he has been open to trying new things that I introduced to him. He did say he would be okay with ejaculating on other parts of my body. 

 

I want to respect people’s boundaries and not want to be pushy.  Do you think he might be open to giving facials? Or should I let it go? I can live without them, but I don’t know if I should close this door just yet. We are a fairly new couple.  

 

I woild love love to hear from any men on the forum. What if you weren’t into something and your woman wanted to try it?

[Don't take much to keep me happy!]

Damn, this motivates me to save more fore retirement.  

[What would you do if a date asks you if you’re a prude?]

1 hour ago, tootimidcorin said:

What a funny question! especially to ask someone you are trying to date? That would be such a turn off to me, I mean you gotta get to know me a lil bit babe before you judge!

Sounds like he just didn't know how to respond to someone with a little more maturity than the "acting slutty" girls he was used to...

 

I agree. It doesn’t increase sexual attraction, when a man asks a woman that. I understand if you dated me for eight months and sensed some “prudish behavior”, but one date doesn’t tell you much. 

 

[What would you do if a date asks you if you’re a prude?]

Months ago, I had a first dinner date with a young man in his 20’s (I am in my 30’s).  We had a decent time with dinner and drinks. I wore a nice red dress with boots during the winter.

The next day, he texts me saying, “are you a prude, because you strike me as one?” .  I asked him why, and he said it’s bc I wasn’t acting slutty.  I told him that you can be in between slutty and prude. He said “yeah.”   I decided not to continue for a second date.   I didn’t like how someone jumped to such a conclusion, with no evidence.  It doesn’t make sense to me to say that a woman is a prude when you barely know her. 

 

What would you think or feel if someone asked you that? I am dating a wonderful person now, who never once asked me that. None of guys I have dated over the years have asked that question. 

 

Ha, it’s a quirky story.

 

 

 

[Women That Like Performing Oral Sex]

On 8/30/2015 at 8:04 PM, WenWitch said:

Kama, finding the person that clicks all your buttons (mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually ) as you do the same for them; and I mean this in every sense of the mind, body, heart and soul, does give you both the mind blowing orgasms that you share with each other. It is as my boyfriend explained to me' "it's not how good looking, charming and romantic you are or how high your sexual technique level is, if the love isn't there, neither is that ultimate euphoric orgasm." Giving oral is more than sucking dick and licking pussies. It's intimacy in it's extreme. It's drawing one's self so passionately close to another or letting someone come that close to you (which requires trust and openness). When you do this your bodies seemingly blend into one. It's getting soulfully deep into each other that you began to feel and sense each other's sexual rhythm. Your bodies dance and move within the sheets or in the tall grass or on the soft sands..... it doesn't really matter does it because you are so "into each other" tasting, feeling, absorbing, caressing, sensing, and loving each other. He wants more than anything to pleasure her and feel his love and she wants more than anything to pleasure him and feel her love. He'll magically "know" all your buttons and how to send you to the moon with that "OMFreaking God! feeling surging hot through your veins. When you find someone that you're willing to "receive" them "giving" their love to you and vice versa; that's the start of some wonderful orgasms. My boyfriend by the way does that for me. He gives me mind blowing, screaming, clawing the back and curling the toes orgasms when he eats me out because he enjoys very much giving me pleasure and sharing his love for me. Before him, I was never really good at giving blow jobs. Or least I thought so. Since I've been with him I realize that I never really was into the other guys and wasn't willing to share all of myself with them or give all my love to them. With him, I enjoy immensely pleasuring him and giving him satisfaction.

I am now in a wonderful relationship with a nice man, and this reply makes a lot of sense now. My man is the best Piv sex partner I have had in my life, because it’s so easy to allow him inside of me.  I want him inside of me, since I respect him so much. I still like giving oral the best, but it’s amazing how the right person can do so much for your body’s arousal! I don’t even need lube or long foreplay with my man.