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    in Rants and Raves

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    On 10/24/2015 at 9:17 PM, WenWitch said:

    I've also been in situations where others thought there was something wrong with me when I went 4 years without dating, sex, nothing. I was called everything from freak to dike (usually by the guys I turned down) to little miss goody two shoes. After breaking up with my girlfriend I just wasn't interested in anything that would involve sex with or without a relationship. I needed time for myself. Sometimes after breaking up with someone that's what you need. Time for yourself. You're less likely to make the same mistakes than you would if you immediately jump in bed with the next person you think is cute

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    On 10/17/2015 at 5:21 PM, luv2eatthepeach2 said:

    Good for you Kama. It's nice to get treated nicely, and have fun once in a while, isn't it?

    And who cares what other people think? Forget about it. Enjoy your life, and do what makes you happy.

     

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    On 10/11/2015 at 8:05 AM, WenWitch said:

    I've been called a tease and prude by men and a slut, whore, cunt, and bitch by women in the past. The men didn't think I put out enough to satisfy their needs and the women who were interested in those men (but the men weren't into them) always acted bitchy and negative towards me whether or not I ever met them. None of which I felt I deserved

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    On 9/27/2015 at 6:38 PM, luv2eatthepeach2 said:

    If you're asking for peoples opinions, I would say do whatever YOU feel is right to you, for YOU. If you want to have a fling, do it. Don't worry about what others think, or say about you.

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  8. For The Men: Signs That You Are Bad In Bed And Don't Know It!

    in Sex Positions & Techniques

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    I wonder if anyone thinks that a man's personality can be a huge turn off during sex. What I value the most is an open mind and unconditional acceptance. The best sex partners I've had understood my sexual preferences and didn't criticize/lecture or dictate me. When a man or a woman makes a rude comment about my sexuality, it's hard for me to let go with them. For instance, calling me a prude or sexually messed up isn't going to make me want to get naked with you. The partners that I was the most attracted to saw me as sexually open and fun. :) sex is all about making your partner feel good.

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  11. Hanging Onto The Past

    in Ask A "Sexpert"

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    Scrolling thru some old posts, I thought I'd bring this post up, from the past, about the past. To get some of our newer member's perspectives.

    What do you think?

    I'm open minded too, and my first instinct was discomfort when reading the post. I think it's human nature to feel a bit uneasy when imagining our partner or ex with someone else.

    To turn the tables, how would he feel if she had videos of her sucking some other dude off or even hearing her talk about her past exploits? The past is the past, but it doesn't need to be brought in one's current sex life. ;)

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  12. Women That Like Performing Oral Sex

    in Oral Sex Discussion

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    Very nicely put WW! :)

    I've always felt sex when you're in love with someone is far superior to just casual sex. You have the time and unrestrained passion to trust your partner implicitly. Plus to me......figuring out what really trips your partners trigger is half the fun and something you both want to do to please someone you love.

    Exactly. Being in my early 30's, I felt like some of my late 20-something and early 30-something friends would question me on why I wasn't so eager to casually hook up with just anyone. It's not going to even feel good without the chemistry. The people that question me are the type that can easily feel sexual enjoyment with just anyone, but I can't. It's a lot of pressure on your body.

  14. Women That Like Performing Oral Sex

    in Oral Sex Discussion

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    On 8/30/2015 at 8:04 PM, WenWitch said:

    Kama, finding the person that clicks all your buttons (mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually ) as you do the same for them; and I mean this in every sense of the mind, body, heart and soul, does give you both the mind blowing orgasms that you share with each other. It is as my boyfriend explained to me' "it's not how good looking, charming and romantic you are or how high your sexual technique level is, if the love isn't there, neither is that ultimate euphoric orgasm." Giving oral is more than sucking dick and licking pussies. It's intimacy in it's extreme. It's drawing one's self so passionately close to another or letting someone come that close to you (which requires trust and openness). When you do this your bodies seemingly blend into one. It's getting soulfully deep into each other that you began to feel and sense each other's sexual rhythm. Your bodies dance and move within the sheets or in the tall grass or on the soft sands..... it doesn't really matter does it because you are so "into each other" tasting, feeling, absorbing, caressing, sensing, and loving each other. He wants more than anything to pleasure her and feel his love and she wants more than anything to pleasure him and feel her love. He'll magically "know" all your buttons and how to send you to the moon with that "OMFreaking God! feeling surging hot through your veins. When you find someone that you're willing to "receive" them "giving" their love to you and vice versa; that's the start of some wonderful orgasms. My boyfriend by the way does that for me. He gives me mind blowing, screaming, clawing the back and curling the toes orgasms when he eats me out because he enjoys very much giving me pleasure and sharing his love for me. Before him, I was never really good at giving blow jobs. Or least I thought so. Since I've been with him I realize that I never really was into the other guys and wasn't willing to share all of myself with them or give all my love to them. With him, I enjoy immensely pleasuring him and giving him satisfaction.

    Beautifully put! I agree that with the right man, anything is possible. Looking back at my past relationships, the few men that I was crazy about knew how to touch me without me having to explain. Giving oral to someone that I'm crazy about is just worship.

    I did have a casual sex partner in the past that couldn't make me orgasm no matter how hard he tried. The answer was simple. The emotional intimacy and trust wasn't as strong.

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  18. Women That Like Performing Oral Sex

    in Oral Sex Discussion

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    I told a man that I was dating about my sexual preferences. I told him straight up that I like giving oral sex better than everything else. His response was, "we are not sexually compatible then." I was relieved, bc I wasn't 100% into him.I was dating him to give him a chance and to see if anything would develop.

    Anyways, keep the replies coming!

  24. Rant About How Bisexuality Is Perceived

    in Everything Else

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    See, I think sexuality is very fluid and complex. It's not black and white. I've seen women that believed they were straight for many years with their husbands, and then left him for another woman. Or, the man that likes to receive a strap-on from his woman.

    I think being bisexual also means you look at the person and not the gender.

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  25. Rant About How Bisexuality Is Perceived

    in Everything Else

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    They were men in their 40's and 50's, and divorced. Nothing against divorced people or older people, but I wonder if insecurity is a factor here.

    As a single woman that's fairly young (30), I also felt insecure hearing those comments. I don't want to feel as if my chances of marriage are ruined.

    I would only have sex with another woman, if my future husband was okay with it. If he says "No, that will hurt me," I will respect his wish.

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