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My sister tells me about these types of guys all the time.
What I don't get is why you just don't call them on it?
Just stop dancing with him and tell him; "Hey you little insecure fucker, your mother might tolerate this bullshit from you but I sure as hell won't. Now start acting like a real person or get the hell out of my face!"
You can sprinkle on more or remove some of the swearing to fit the situation, but it will definitely get the job done. Most of the time guys that are "assholes" just are super insecure and will retreat if you just call them on it.
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Ice cream on a warm summer day can get be going.
Also, laughter is a major turn on.
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I can see why you would think so and maybe thats true for men (the psychological aspect) but as a female I have to disagree. Yes prepping one's self is important to feeling sexy and in the mood. However, when a man's hand, lips, tongue, whatever.... touches a shaved vaginal area their is most definitely a heightened sensitivity that is in no way purely psychological.
Here do this: Assuming you have hair in your head, take your hand and ever to lightly run your fingers over the top or your head, ok, now do the same thing to your arm(if it's not hairy) or neck or a hairless area of your person. feel the difference......... Now times that by at least 10 for the sensitivity factor of the vagina itself. Not purely psychological at all!
Wow, I never thought about it that way. It does make sense, at least for women.
Thanks for that, I'm definitely going to mention that next time I get in a discussion about shaving =)
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Ok, so I've noticed that a lot of women comment on liking porn with some plot to it. Not every woman on the site, but quite a few and I've had ex's who seem to get into ones with plot FAR more than the random sex scene ones. What is it about it that turns you ladies on?
I like a bit of a plot every now and then bc I feel like I can kind of get into it a bit more. You know, like you could see yourself doing what's going on the screen. The problem with that though, is that often times I might relate the person on screen to someone I've had sex with (especially if it's a good scene). So then I start thinking about the girl and past feelings come up...Oh! And there goes my erection...*doubles over in pain* and here comes the blue balls.
I guess that's why I like scenes with groups to them. I don't get attatched or relate to it much at all I just get off on thinking of me doing one of the MANY things that's going to this girl. That's as into the movie I get and it doesn't go over board and I'm able to have an orgasm better.
So there you have it ladies, I've offered some insight from a single man's POV as to why we like to watch porn with or without dialogue, what are your thoughts on the why you like to watch porn with or without dialogue?
That's kind of interesting; because I'm a guy and I feel the same way... But the other way around; the plot makes me think of someone and that makes the whole thing much more interesting.
Also, it makes the whole thing much more realistic as well. And you know what they say, the most potent erogenous zone is mind
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Yeah, I'd be worried about #1 and #3 as well! That's why I keep control of all the recordings of myself. Can't even trust your loved one
I don't think you should worry about #2 though. I mean, as long as you're not faking anything while you're having sex then whatever happens is great. It's the imperfections that make it perfect.
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Married over 10 years with two great kids. Have always had a good sex life, but lately it's been getting tougher and tougher to "make" time if you know what I mean. We have never watched porn together and were talking about spicing things up in the sack.
Agreement was we would each order one film and watch. I spent about 4 days on the net checking out different reviews for first timers, etc etc, and ended up with Island Fever 4. I had no idea what I was getting into but was excited nonetheless.
The package came and the night arrived. (well my film did anyway
) It seems she never ordered one. So we pop the dvd in and get to relaxing and watching. My wife has never been a porn watcher and we had a lot of interesteing conversation and laughs. It was a good night There were parts during the movie that did absolutely nothing for her such as the facials mainly. It seemed what turned her on was the girl girl stuff as long as it wasn't too rough. She was not impressed by the 12" units, deep throating blowjobs, and money shots. I was fine with the girl girl stuff of course.
This movie had no plot and she's unsure if she would like something with a plot, but I know the "standard" big dicks and facials don't do it for her.
My question is, where do I go from here?
Funny about that. My ex had the same reaction; she really enjoyed the girl on girl, but not much of the other stuff.
Maybe it's because it's not as strained and faked as the other parts?
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Yeah, I suggest amateur stuff as well.
I don't understand it though; I'm a guy and I don't like the "fake" stuff either.
It's much better when it's real since you can actually relate to what's happening.
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Haha, fantastic.
What a great job by the way.
And also, how would you go up to someone to ask that?
"Hey buddy.. Could you fuck my wife?"
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These are not the Darwin Awards though!
The Darwin Awards include people that accidentally kill or mutilate themselves in a way that stops them from having children again.
I remember hearing a story about a guy that was talking to his buddy about the fantastic shielding power of a kevlar vest.
Again and again he was saying that it could stop any thing, a bullet from a handgun, a rifle-shot... It could even stop a knife!
So they decided to test the theory. Unfortunately, he put the vest on him and THEN they tried stabbing him.
If I recall correctly, it punctured his lung and he died of internal bleeding.
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Funny, I've had all of those.
Online, co worker, ex partner etc.
Fortunately, the reason they were all secret is now all gone.
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What she should be thinking about is contraception.
And that's not a porno I'd like to see!
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Classic Ego.
I'm glad it's been such a long time ago I saw this type of "I'm better than you because my suffering is bigger than yours!"-type of mentality. Just be glad that your head is not stuck up your ass.
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It's sound like you need to go on vacation.
Just take a couple of days off, get a way and completely ignore all the stresses for a little while. When you get back you'll feel a lot better.
I felt the same way a couple of weeks ago. I didn't even feel like I had the time to get away, but finally a friend of mine twisted my arm (thank god) and we went to Barcelona for a weekend.
When I came back I had a completely fresh mind; all the problems that were there before were still there, they just seemed to matter less, and I wasn't as certain that they were insurmountable.
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UgHHHHHHH! with the economy as is i am very thankful i have a job but getting attitude and dirty looks when i'm not pleased about being mandated (my 12 hr shift forced into becoming 16 hr shift) after already having worked several 12 hr shifts in a row is bullshit. Oh yes please let my pull 16 hrs on 4 hrs sleep! oh please pick me!!! not. hey ya do what ya have to. I'll do it without complaint (most of the time) but don't expect me to smile and acted really happy.
thanks for listening
shy
16hr shift! That's a long day. Is that even legal?
I know it's no consolation; but remember that you're there because you choose to be there.
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I'm new here and have been reading some great things, thanks for many ideas. I have one question though. Neither my wife or I shave and don't trim very close. Do you find increased pleasure with a clean (or closely trimmed) pussy and/or balls?
I'd say definitely yes.
It's probably purely psychological; just putting in the effort to make everything look great down there makes you both feel a little more sexual. It's like dressing up when you're going out to party: in a way, it gets you in the mood.
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I think just being honest and open about it is the best idea long term.
If he's not offended there are several things you can do to change the taste. The best of which are really more water (dilutes the tastes) & fresh fruit (sweetens the deal).
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Why doesn't she just take real initiative? Like for instance, she bought the clamps, but instead of just mentioning them, why doesn't she just take them out and use them? It's not like she need his approval.
I mean, of course, it's nicer to have him WANT something more wild, but sometimes you have to get the ball rolling yourself before you can ask someone else to join in.
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Since you became one of the guys by hanging out a lot with the guys, the most reasonable way of becoming one of the girls is to start hanging out more with the females again.
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An interesting technique that could work is to say or do something taboo. Push your finger up his anus and tell him to fuck his little school girl. It doesn't really matter what you do; it's just that since what your doing and saying doesn't make any sense his mind gets overstimulated and just releases. At least I know this works for many guys I know.
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While I understand that you want to cum over her face (of course you do, if she doesn't!) I have to say that I've done that a couple of times, and I really don't understand what the big deal is about this. Quite frankly, I think the whole thing is just a silly idea that people started doing just because they saw it in a porno sometime.
Why would you want to take it out in the last second, when it's feeling the best, and jerk it off yourself?
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Even if you're not crazy about the taste, if you already have a mouthful of cum, swallowing is the easiest and fastest way to get rid of it. Make believe that it's medicine. Say aahh. All gone!
Just take it in your mouth and spit it out in a tissue afterwards.... Clean, Quick And Pleasurable!
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I can never understand how brave a woman is that she'll willingly go down on a man that is driving 60 mph.
I mean, I'm thankful, but as a man, If I'm going to die by a car crash, at least its my fault.
The woman won't see it coming at all.
(Wow, I realize that was pretty grim. Thanks to all you great ladies who do it anyway!!)
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Wow, this was cool, never heard of it before. I'll definitely pass it on to my gf though
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While I'm not really defending your husband (I mean, trying on anything new should be welcomed with open arms) but some men have super sensitive members and it's not like you can control what you like and don't like. Just go on to something else
) It seems she never ordered one. So we pop the dvd in and get to relaxing and watching. My wife has never been a porn watcher and we had a lot of interesteing conversation and laughs. It was a good night 
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HAHAHAHAHA!!!!
That's evil.
I like it!