Gnomie

The toy on this site doesn't offer that option however Doc Johnson does make something called an ivibe internet rabbit which can be controlled from someone else's computer. I don't know the details but you can also buy a matching internet controlled sleeve for your fella (although I don't think he'd want to use that at work) or a simple bullet. Check out high joy products, I don't know if they sell at the best price but they do serve as a decent starting point. Have fun!

I read that article on Jezebel too, I hate it when these kinds of products come around perpetuating this myth that a woman's virginity is something tangible to be valued.

I have a baby bunny vibrating egg, it's worth its weight in gold when it comes to clean up free orgasms