longbardlary

Are you sure he's going nuts in a good way? The head, for me at least, is really sensitive in a bad way, and pretty much any pressure on it is painful. i tend to recoil and make a face when that happens that might look like it's pleasure, but it's not quite. Not to give any offense to you or anything.

Aroused or not aroused? And to the guy who asked the question, don't base your confidence on the size of your penis. Differences in size matter some, but if your concerned about bringing a girl to orgasm, there's a lot more to worry about than the size of your penis. You always here some women say that the size doesn't matter, and you always think it's a lie to make guys out there with tiny johnsons feel better. My own sister said to me that she couldn't care less about the size of her bf's penis, and it's my own sister, she doesn't lie. Some girls might, but there's more than size to the mix.

It's funny that you posted this. I'm like you as far as this forum is concerned. The exact same thing happened to me... last night. Hearing that someone else out there had the same thing happen makes me a little more confidant, hope it can do the same for you. Also a friend of mine who had a tendency to get all the ladies sad the same thing a few years back, that he didn't know why, but it always took him forever to cum when he got head, and that was his sophomore year in highschool, which you'd expect to be the age of premature ejaculation. For me, i'm gonna take the advice given to you by the others and consider myself lucky.

I'm young, and my girlfriend is young. She was the first girl to give me a blow job, and i was the first guy she had ever given one to, and as a result it didn't turn out to be as great as maybe we had expected. Actually it was somewhat painful and uncomfortable so that we ended up finishing it off with a hand job, which was also somewhat painful, but sexy just the same. The simple fact that she is willing to and seemed to enjoy getting me off is really hot, along with the whole situation in general. I guess i'll skip the awkward beating around the bush and say that i was really grateful and turned on, but it was painful just the same. I think she knew that it didn't turn out to great, and hope she isn't upset by that, also. We're in a really good, healthy relationship, so the dilemma wasn't at all awkward, but i don't really know how to suggest that she look for advice. Also i don't really know how to give her advice because i don't know what it is that would turn it into a good bj. The main problem was that i couldn't feel it in the right places, you know, that spot beneath the head that feels good when rubbed, but instead most of the action was on the head of my penis, which (for me at least) is sensitive in a bad way. I don't want to hurt her feelings in any way (as i'm sure all of you understand), but it would be nice to somehow get her to see some of the advice on websites like these. any suggestions? As a side note, I'd like to return the favor, but she is uncomfortable in some way with her underparts and doesn't want to be touched. I'm respectful of that, and I don't want to pressure her into doing something she isn't ready for doing, but i don't think the problem is her being ready judging by what we've already done. I don't know if she's embarrassed, or self conscious, or if she thinks I'll think it's gross, but if anyone has any advice on how to make her more confidant when it comes to that, aside from me just trying to reassure her, it would be much appreciated. I am young, and any advice, even if you think it's basic, would probably be helpful to me. Thanks in advance.

I'm not sure if it's okay to say on this website, but have you considered a little bit of pot? Smoking a lot of pot is bad for you, can kill your ambition and hurt your lungs, but i'd say there isn't anything wrong with smoking a little of it every once in a while, and it can really help to increase sensitivity and orgasm. A few friends of mine who are women have said that it helps their masturbation etc. for a decent amount of time after.