I used to be able to cum fairly easily, within 5 minutes with a vibrator or porn, maybe 10 with oral. In the last few months I have noticed that it is actually getting harder for me to cum, no matter what method I use. I make sure to mix it up so I don't get used to only cumming one way, but no matter what it takes longer. I got a VCH about 9 months ago, I'm not sure if that could be causing this. I have tried a little experimentation with taking it out, and cumming, but its still hard. I know my body fairly well, I play all the time with different techniques and such, I just don't know what to do. Can anyone help? Has anyone had this problem? (Sorry a bit rambling, I wanted to get all the info in ) Thank you! ~*Beth*~