cheesehead

Every year insurance companies give you less but charge you more. Hmmm why does that sound so much like the government?

Thanks danceinthesheets, yes she is over 50. I'm 64 and she is 62. She is WELL PAST menopause. You're also right that she has no problem achieving orgasms and actually squirts a couple times a week. The only afteraffect from menopause I guess you could call it is that she is dry an awful lot. She can be so turned on that she is almost jumping out of her skin but she is still dry. Neither of us understands it. I have to use my tongue and give her her first orgasm (I know it's tough but somebody has to do it) before I can enter her or it's like sandpaper inside her. Sometimes even after her first orgasm she is still dry as a bone and I have to use lube. I hate lube except when we do anal because I haven't found one yet that tastes decent. As far as the frequent ED it bothers me a lot more than it bothers her. Sometimes I can cum twice a night, which ain't bad for a 64 year old with health issues, but other nights I can't get it up at all. My health insurance quit paying ANYTHING towards Viagra and I haven't had any success in growing a money tree in the back yard so that idea is out.

Hello again. I had an account here about 7 years ago but it was mainly to read other people's posts and try to learn new ways how to make sex better for my girlfriend. Unfortunately she died shortly after I joined and I never came back. I was celibate for about 4 years after that but I have been in a relationship with another woman for close to 3 years now and this is a forever thing. We are very much in love and I will be moving in with her (she lives in another state) within the next couple months. She swears that regardless of my frequent episodes of ED that just being together and touching and kissing and waking up next to each other is all that matters to her but it matters to me. I want to make sex over the top good for her and even though I am pretty darn good with my hands and my talented tongue and she usually comes 3 or 4 times a night I know I'm not giving her what she really wants and it drives me crazy. I have read numerous articles about the top 10 causes of ED and it sucks to know I have 8 of them. I know my mind is my worst enemy but knowing it and doing something about it are 2 different things.

My fiance was raised in a Catholic environment where sex was taboo. Later in her marriage she suffered from rejection by her husband most of the time. She loves sex with me but she can't bring herself to talk about it, tell me what she wants and when, how things make her feel or anything. Her mind won't let her. I am trying to be very patient and help her to help herself but I could sure use some suggestions.