Dvd: Taormino's Ultimate Guide To Anal Sex For Women

[elise]

I never set out to be tagged "The Anal Lady", but as time passes more and more women (and some men) approach me with questions about anal sex. I realize it's partly because of my profession, but clearly it's also because people do talk... and I've not really been completely discreet about my enjoyment of anal sex.

Anyway, a few months ago a young woman I work with confessed to me over coffee that she and her husband were really interested in trying anal sex, but despite having had great success with anal play during oral sex, their first attempts at anal intercourse had been disastrous: uncomfortable, messy, and leaving them both with feelings of inadequacy. She felt that she'd disappointed her HB and wanted to find a way to make it up to him. After we talked for a while she felt better about things. The next day I gave her a copy of Tristan Taormino's book, The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex For Women, which is the most complete manual on anal sex I've ever read. She read it and told me a few days later that she had shared it with her husband, and they were positive about re-trying anal.

But she was still somewhat anxious about it, and asked me several times if a woman could truly enjoy anal intercourse, and clearly was not convinced by my words. Then it occurred to me to show her. No, not personally; we are NOT swingers, thank you very much. I loaned her my copy of Taormino's DVD version of The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women. (And yes, Virginia, you can buy it here on TT.)

I ran into her at a Christmas party last week and when we had a chance to talk alone, she was positively gushing about the DVD and its effect on her sex life. She and her HB were not just having anal intercourse, but she was having anal orgasms, and the effect it was having on all aspects of their sex life together had been electrifying.

She told me that all the reading and talking had been educational, but she was simply not able to make the leap of faith until she watched the DVD. The educational introduction is quite good, but what really worked for her (and has worked for others) was watching real women having sex with their real partners (ok, they're all porn stars, but that doesn't mean they have no love life), and having what certainly appear to be real orgasms during anal fucking. It helped her break through the psychological barrier she had about anal sex, and she's now a convert.

So I thought that perhaps some of the anal neophytes lurking here might want to think about getting a copy of this DVD, and see if it helps them to break through whatever hesitation or barriers they might have. If you try it and it helps, please let us know!

This is the <sigh> Anal Lady, signing off..

[Mikayla1]

Tristan Taormino is one of the foremost authorities on anal sex! I am so pleased she came out with this DVD. I had the chance to meet her a few years back - she is one knowledgable lady - and very, very interesting.

I too suggest anyone intersted in anal sex take a gander at this DVD!

If you are interested, she has a great website: www.puckerup.com - check it out!