My Hubby's Porn Stash

[kungfugirl]

So my hubby has had a stash of porn magazines for as long as I've known him. Some days I'm OK with it, and other days I am soooo not OK with it. I hoped for the longest time he'd get rid of it, but I don't even know if he looks at it. Anyway, I figure "if you can't beat 'em, join 'em." So how do I bring up the conversation that I'd like to look at them with him? I have looked at them on my own and used my vibrator...hehehee. (uh, he doesn't know that part) I can't just say "hey honey, let's look at those porn magazines you think I'm not OK with and we can have some fun!" I don't think so. Anyone got any ideas on icebreakers??? I'm getting bored of necessity sex.

[Mikayla1]

You know, my hubby and I have subscriptions to Playboy and Penthouse and these subscriptions are under MY name. Some nights I just sit in bed looking and reading and when my hubby comes to bed we look together. My suggestion, just get on the bed naked - have a book in your hand - and when your hubby comes to bed - invite him to look, tell him that it makes you horny!

Simple pleasure!

Mikayla

[nosleepnmesa]

Well Kungfugirl let me be the first to WELCOME YOU TO TOOTIMID!!! My hubby has a stash of those to, at first i didnt know about them tell one day I was putting away laundry and one of his dresser drawers was so full I couldnt firgue out why. Well it wasnt because he had alot of clothes in them. I think he had a whole 2 t-shirts and a pair of shorts LOL. Well I was okay with it, but wasnt okay with him hiding them from me or not telling me. So what I did was to bring up the subject I went to the store and bought the new one the had out and left it placed(just so he could find it and not the children)I never said a word about it, then when I went up to our room since he seem to have been up there along time, my I looked and it was gone. I said to him did you see the gift I bought I thought you might like? He immediatley said thank you and that started up the whole conversation at this point in time though we had only been married about 6months and we had a long talk about them and he explained why he was hiding them and why he thought that I wasnt going to be okay with it.

We have been married now for 8years, that is what I tried, you can try buying one and just leave it in a place that only he would find. Then when you notice it moved or gone or read. Ask him if he found the gift you bought for him, or hey maybe he might just bring up the book he found himself. A conversation is needed and I hope this helps some as to how to bring up the issue ect. I have to say that I have renewed his subscribtion numerous times and in fact found a new one and ordered it for him, we have sat down and looked at them togeather and heck found some really interesting things to.

Let me know if this helps! Welcome again!

[ambrelyn]

Yeah, that's what I would do, Mikayla. "Ooops, you caught me. You know, I think I was wrong about this whole porn thing." My fiancee wants me to watch a porn with him, and at first I was turned off by the idea, thinking it was only for men or that it was wrong or I'd be embarassed to watch it with him, but the more I think about it the more it turns me on. So the last order I got from this site was during the promotion for a free random dvd, and I got it. Now I can't wait til it comes and we can watch it. I told him that when I placed my order it was just thrown in. Huh, don't know how that happened.