Newbie midnightsky85 Posted February 10, 2014 Newbie Report Share Posted February 10, 2014 I've glanced through a few pages of ?s but haven't seen anything related to my issue. I've been using vibrators for a couple of years now -single- and recently I had sex for the first time in a while. Well, I wasn't able to orgasm. Not only that, oral sex just did nothing for me. I'm worried that using my vibrator may have desensitized my clit, is that possible? And is it possible to get sensation back? I used to be fairly easy to get there before toys, but now I pretty much have to use constant pressure with strong vibrations directly on my clit for 8-10 minutes before I can orgasm.For now, I'm leaving the toys in the drawer.Thanks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members michelleddd Posted February 12, 2014 Members Report Share Posted February 12, 2014 I do think that the pressure vibrators produce can lessen sensitivity, I notice if I masturbate a lot I can have trouble cumming from oral.I've heard men say if they're single and jerking off a lot it can be hard to orgasm with a vagina when it's time.Worth leaving them alone for a while and see if you get some feeling back. Good luck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members square Posted February 13, 2014 Members Report Share Posted February 13, 2014 My wife used to be able to orgasm by herself just with fingers, and after regular vibrator use she seems to have a tough time without the vibrator now. (Forgot to bring it on vacation one time, and with just fingers [hers and mine] it took her forever.)She also used to love when I gave her oral, but now it seems like it is just OK, nothing special. She hasn't said anything, but based on her reactions to it, it seems that way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie samoramma Posted February 21, 2014 Newbie Report Share Posted February 21, 2014 I can't speak to whether or not your clit would be desensitized, but for me using a strong vibrator has been the only way I have ever been able to orgasm. Just recently, was the first time that I have been able to without watching porn and having my bf use the vibe on me. Felt SO much better with him, but I feel bad that I have to have it in order to get to that point. :[ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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