Problems With My Man Keeping Up

[VALERIE]

OK ME AND MY MAN ARE GOING AT FOREVER, WE DO JUST ABOUT EVERY POSTION WE CAN THINK OF & MY BABY CAN ONLY CUM ONCE. SO EVERY TIME HE GETS CLOSE WE SLOW DOWN & START BACK UP AGAIN. THE PROBLEM IS SOONER OR LATER HE CUMS BEFORE I'M THROUGH WITH HIM. SURE I HAVE MULTIPLE ORGASIMS, BUT I STILL YEARN FOR HIM LIKE WE HAD JUST BEGUN. NOW I'M NOT SURE IF MAYBE HE'S NOT GIVING IT TO ME AS RUFF AS HE CAN OR IF IT IS THAT NO MATTER WHAT HE DID I WOULD BE UNSATISFIED. NOW I'M NOT SAYING HE IS'NT DOING HIS PART CAUSE NOT TOO LONG AFTER HE GIVES UP I'M SO SORE & SWOOLEN IT WILL BE DAYS TILL MY NEXT ADVENTURE.

DOES ANYONE HAVE ANY IDEAS FOR ME?

[Tyger]

Um, DITTO! LOL

Not to sound rude, cuz I'm not trying to be, but if he's gotten you off several times, and he finally lets go, how much more do you think he should do? I mean, he's only human. Depending on how tired he is, or healthy he is must factor into it as well.

Although it's great that you want him so much! Maybe start the session by fondling yourself, let him use some toys on you, or watch you pleasure yourself. Or even while he is recouperating as well.

Most men can only cum once, then they need, as mentioned about 10-20 min to recoup, catch their breathe, so on. Most men envy the woman's ability for multiple orgasms. Their excitement takes a little bit more, um, energy, I guess? That's a muscle that is full of blood. When it's done, it needs a break. However, if you love the feeling of him being on top of you, or behind you, himself doing the thrusting, may I suggest a strap on? Not as a replacement, but as a bonus!

Remember, it's not quantity, but the quality of the love making.

Happy playing!!

[househunter]

I know I can't keep up with my wife. I am always finishing way before her. The only problem we have is that I am always wanting to have sex with her and to try new things, but she never is.

Once my cock is inside her I am done I think it is because when she finally warms up her clit is so swollen that it feels ruff. Talk about a natural cock tickler. Once I start going in and out of her wet vargina and feel that swollen clit I've done lost it.

Howard has some great pointers that I have tried and does work. I have work on getting her to climax several times before I insert. That way I know that she is statisfied and I can blow a nut at any time. But like Howard said all that work does make you every tried.

I had not climax and been know to go soft many times because I was working on her so much.

Concentration on her made me forget about what I wanted to the point that my dick would go soft. Then I needed that time to relax to get it back up. For me it is much longer time 20-30 minutes is normal for most men. Word here is patients. Forplay can not only be just in the bedroom. Try forplay a couple days before with clothes on. This would give you the rest he needs and you. Build to the moment during the week. This could be by just touching each other caressing each other but never to the point that you need to rip each others clothes off. Then one day when the timing is just right to where you just have to have it NOW, get it on. But let him start the with you, working on you will slow him down to the point that he will last longer.

This will get you the multi organisms you need and he will be able to keep his penis harder longer.

[Tyger]

Aye aye!! Captian!! *solutes*

[househunter]

You the Man Howard. Everything that you have mention does work. I have tried just using just the head of my dick to help in prolonging orgasm and it does seem to work. And we both love the corkscrew. But when that clitoris is working like a french tickler, Bam I am done.

I am so gald that I found this site. I just wish that I could get my wife to read some of this form. She could learn so much. She doesn't know that I am using this form and would kill me if she new. But hey, she sure does like the results that are coming from what I know now. Thanks Howard.

[VALERIE]

First you are welcome. If rubbing your cock on her clit sets you off, then don't do it! Glad you like doing the corkscrew. That has always worked to excite my lovers. Its kind of doing Hoolah-hoop exercises, but with a better purpose!

Second, I don't understand why you would not have her read this site? If she enjoys your new sex life, then why would she not want to know where you get all that great information? Its not like we sign our names, or tell others where we live. Her privacy is assured, even if she decides to come on line and ask a question herself. If you read much of the prior posts here, you will find that we have many women readers, and many women who give the best advice to other women, and to men. AND, its the feedback from other women that tells me that these little tricks I shared with you can work for other men, too. So, sit her down in front of the computer screen and show her how to find TooTimid.com, to read some of the fun we share here. Its like women and porn. Most get very horny watching porn, and most porn movies get returned to the rental shops without ever being completely viewed. If she doesn't know how turned on she can get by reading porn, let her start here.

Have fun. Howard

I AGREE 100%. I WAS KIND OF NERVOUS ABOUT TELLING MY HUSBAND WHAT I'VE BEEN UP TO, BUT AFTER SHARING WITH HIM HE IS FINE & MOST IMPORTANT INTERESTED. I THINK SHARING IS BETTER THAN GETTING CAUGHT, THEN IT MAKES SOMETHING AS INOCENT AS THIS INTO DRAMA. SHARING IS CARING. & WHO KNOWS MAYBE SHE MIGHT SUPRISE YOU WITH SOME THING SHE LEARNED.