Guest Lizzie Posted February 14, 2005 Report Share Posted February 14, 2005 My boyfriend and I both enjoy sex, but the problem is it lasts too long. He is unable to orgasm until about an hour and half to two hours after we begin penetration. After about 40 minutes it starts to hurt and burn and I am ready to stop. This is a big problem. He's tried to do it sooner, but can't. Is there any solution? We are clueless as to what to do. I've tried a lot of foreplay before, not working. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Guest paul vall Posted February 17, 2005 Report Share Posted February 17, 2005 Anyone?<{POST_SNAPBACK}> Your boyfriend is having an emotional problem, and probably needs to see a psychiatrist. He is not cumming because he is either afraid to cum or doesn't want to do so. Are you both using good safe sex methods to prevent pregnancy? He may not consciously understand why he does not cum. Most men would be thrilled to last and hour and a half, just to be able to please their lover that much more. ( I am not sure if you are complaining or bragging>) LIke women having orgasms, he has to learn to relax his muscles, and let it go. Have him take a deep breathe, hold it for 5 seconds, and then slowly, very slowly exhale, very deeply. Have him wait for 5 seconds before he inhales. That should cause him to gasp when he does breathe in, and that will stimulate his diaphragm and his nerves in his sex organs, and he should orgasm out of control within a few such deep breathing sessions. You can also stimulate the base of his penis, orally, or manually, the area between his testicles and his rectum, and the rectum itself. Finally, stimulate the prostate gland by inserting a finger into his rectum and reaching up about 2.5 inches and touch the forward part of his rectum. That will manually push seminal fluid stored there down the urethra, and out the penis, and the stimulation will trigger the tightening of the testicles, and passage of sperm with the seminal fluid out the penis in a very evident orgasm, or climax. paul Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest doctor m Posted February 17, 2005 Report Share Posted February 17, 2005 Your boyfriend is having an emotional problem, and probably needs to see a psychiatrist. He is not cumming because he is either afraid to cum or doesn't want to do so. Are you both using good safe sex methods to prevent pregnancy? He may not consciously understand why he does not cum. Most men would be thrilled to last and hour and a half, just to be able to please their lover that much more. ( I am not sure if you are complaining or bragging>) LIke women having orgasms, he has to learn to relax his muscles, and let it go. Have him take a deep breathe, hold it for 5 seconds, and then slowly, very slowly exhale, very deeply. Have him wait for 5 seconds before he inhales. That should cause him to gasp when he does breathe in, and that will stimulate his diaphragm and his nerves in his sex organs, and he should orgasm out of control within a few such deep breathing sessions. You can also stimulate the base of his penis, orally, or manually, the area between his testicles and his rectum, and the rectum itself. Finally, stimulate the prostate gland by inserting a finger into his rectum and reaching up about 2.5 inches and touch the forward part of his rectum. That will manually push seminal fluid stored there down the urethra, and out the penis, and the stimulation will trigger the tightening of the testicles, and passage of sperm with the seminal fluid out the penis in a very evident orgasm, or climax. paul<{POST_SNAPBACK}>great answer if you like bullshit. your boyfriend has a very low testosterone count, probably below 100. 248 is considered is generally considered sterile. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members crazy1 Posted July 11, 2005 Members Report Share Posted July 11, 2005 "great answer if you like bullshit. your boyfriend has a very low testosterone count, probably below 100. 248 is considered is generally considered sterile"This is horribly wrong, your man suffers from what is called retrarded ejaculation. The guy who said it was all about emotional problems was right. He might need counciling. Basically what retarded ejaculation is, is when a man just can't cum. It usually stems from an emotional problem like guilt, or fear, sometimes it can be from past sexuall trauma. The good news is that it can be treated and you can both have normal sexuall lives if you just can open up and get help. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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