Squirting...but not shooting it out

[HappilyMarriedFV]

Folks - 

My Wife has good fluid build-up that I can "come hither" with my finger out of her when she's on her back. Also, when she rides cowgirl facing me, fluid "runs" out of her. We've had some instances of her being able to shoot it out or "spray" me - which I LOVE - but... we can't figure out how to master the technique/timing necessary to give her control over doing it when we both want - and so my delight only happens about once a year :-(. We have read "Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot" by Deborah Sundahl, which is what got us to her first and on-going ejaculation. But we're stuck on getting her to the ability of willfully spraying it out onto me.

Can some folks who can spray (not just dribble) help us understand the timing and/or techniques that would work? My Wife is willing to workshop this with me, but we just don't know where to start.

Thanks for any help!

[saltybear]

Practice practice practice

Lots of toys to stimulate. 

Lots of masturbation to strengthen the core muscle of vagina

[Shygirl1]

Squirting is a great sensation but it definitely takes practice if you want full projectef squirting . 

Impressive you ate do eager to help her experience this. Encourage her to relax and enjoy the sensations and feelings. When she starts to feel the urge and the build up.... bare down and squeeze. Lean into the pleasure and enjoy the glorious mess. 😊

[michelleddd]

I find the longer between times it builds up hence squirting is enhanced. If we’re having mores frequent sex it can be more of a gush, although I can’t hit a target 6 feet away   😝.    Just enjoy it, no worries about distance as long as it feels good!

[MrsG]

This is something I also want to experience and my husband also wants me to be able to do it. These comments help a lot!

[DewMan@1961]

Put more play into the clit, by licking and sucking on it and her sweet wet pussy lip's, then slide your finger in side of her too the second nuckel and do the come-hither Movement. Make sure your hand is in the upwards poison. She will know when she is ready to squirt your face full of her sweet hot pussy CUM. HOPE THIS HELPS ALL YOU NICE COUPLE'S AND WOMEN AND MEN ON THIS SITE. 

          Thanks MandyandDewey

              deweydwc@yahoo.com

[all the time]

I think edging is the key. It requires communication. Don't expect it to happen every time. 

[tiptaste]

19 hours ago, all the time said:

I think edging is the key. It requires communication. Don't expect it to happen every time. 

I believe this is right. One of my friends gets very wet during (the right kind) of foreplay. She doesn't squirt every time but when she does it's after a LOT of foreplay and getting her to the brink and then trying something new. Lots of licking and nipple pulling. Mutual oral. LOTS of ass play and light penetratioin. Once she gets very wiggly and starts blushing around her breasts, she'll get herself into position on her back so that I can work her deep and slow with my fingers. Once I find the spot, I stay there and stay slow while I work her clit. Just before her climax, she'll often squirt. It generally precedes her orgasm and I learned to NOT stop what I was doing when she squirted or I'd ruin her cum. The squirts are very evident but she doesn't make it from her to my body. Well once, she wet my cock but I was pretty close. She does make a mess of the bed or whatever she's lying on. She never squirts unless she gets edged a lot and she never squirts when she masturbates herself.