Newbie vivaceme Posted September 12, 2006 Newbie Report Share Posted September 12, 2006 My boyfriend has a hard time cumming. He almost gets there but something stops him. He still enjoys having sex and is great at pleasuring me. He has a good erection. What can we do? What toys/lotions should we use? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mikayla1 Posted September 13, 2006 Members Report Share Posted September 13, 2006 OK, I see from your statistics that you are not a teenager - so I doubt that pregnancy worries are the problem. Does he NEVER cum, or is it just sometimes? Can he cum when he masturbates? Let me ask, and I don't mean to pry, but is he taking Viagra, Cialis or some other erectile enhancement? You might not even know if he is or not, but that could be your answer!You really don't want to use anything to speed up orgasm - I mean, most women would kill to have a man who could go and go and go. I would suggest talking to him about what makes him really hot. Oral sex? watching you play with a toy? I think what would get him going good is some prostrate play. Sticking a finger or a small plug up his ass during oral would probably get him off right quick.So, let me know the answers to my questions and I will see what I can do.Mikayla Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie vivaceme Posted October 25, 2006 Author Newbie Report Share Posted October 25, 2006 OK, I see from your statistics that you are not a teenager - so I doubt that pregnancy worries are the problem. Does he NEVER cum, or is it just sometimes? Can he cum when he masturbates? Let me ask, and I don't mean to pry, but is he taking Viagra, Cialis or some other erectile enhancement? You might not even know if he is or not, but that could be your answer!You really don't want to use anything to speed up orgasm - I mean, most women would kill to have a man who could go and go and go. I would suggest talking to him about what makes him really hot. Oral sex? watching you play with a toy? I think what would get him going good is some prostrate play. Sticking a finger or a small plug up his ass during oral would probably get him off right quick.So, let me know the answers to my questions and I will see what I can do.Mikayla Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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