Newbie YoG Posted August 17, 2020 Newbie Report Share Posted August 17, 2020 Hi My problem is that my gf has 0 libido. We've been together for 1 year and we always had sex 2-3 times a week Maximum. It's good, but I just don't feel her excitement. I'm always the one who start it, talk about it. We had many discussions, and she said that she doesn't really have sexual pulsions, she's also easily tired. I feel like I tried everything. I tried to tease her, be more distant, more affective, romantic, I make sure that she came every time... She told me that it wasn't my fault, that she had to work on it, but I feel like I don't turn her up or something like that. I really love her and I want both of us to enjoy our sexual life, but I don't feel satisfied. What should I do? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members cirrus20 Posted August 17, 2020 Members Report Share Posted August 17, 2020 Excellent advise from Excited. I'd suggest she see her gynecologist to have tests done and maybe get a recommendation for a specialist if needed. But is she willing to do other fun things to satisfy you (blowjob, handjob, etc)? Is she possibly afraid to tell you what really turns her on because she thinks you might not like it? But, if she's not willing to discuss her problems or desires, help satisfy your needs, or doesn't want to see a doctor there might be other relationship issues you two will need to seriously discuss. Good luck and I hope it works out for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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