Sex Change

[Andrew]

Hey y'all. I've been on this site for three years. It's been great and judgment free. Now. I have to share something. Here lately, my fantasies have been me as a woman with men. When I go to clothing stores, I'm trying to find the right lingerie or dress for me. I'm born a male, but I believe inside at heart I'm female. Being that woman in a relationship and being that wife is something that is one my mind and quite frankly a dream for me and quite frankly a dream come true for me. I'm thinking about the steps of getting a sex change. What are y'alls thoughts?

[Bob Long]

35 minutes ago, Andrew said:

Hey y'all. I've been on this site for three years. It's been great and judgment free. Now. I have to share something. Here lately, my fantasies have been me as a woman with men. When I go to clothing stores, I'm trying to find the right lingerie or dress for me. I'm born a male, but I believe inside at heart I'm female. Being that woman in a relationship and being that wife is something that is one my mind and quite frankly a dream for me and quite frankly a dream come true for me. I'm thinking about the steps of getting a sex change. What are y'alls thoughts?

I completely understand how you feel but just my two cents worth of unprofessional opinion would be before you make a giant irreversible leap why don't you try living as a woman by completely immersing yourself in the female experience by crossdressing and working on your feminine self, your hair, your makeup, your walk, your talk go buy yourself tons of lingerie, dresses blouses, skirts, shoes, boots you name it honey have fun  and when you have your confidence level high enough to go our in public give it a go. Go to gay clubs as I have found them to be the most non judgemental folks your going to encounter. One thing a long time gay friend of mine pointed out not all gay men are  into being with a crossdresser or person in transition they simply like men period. 

Its a giant leap so you need to first make very very sure that your ready for such a big step, we know a transgender no woman who told us she had to go through months of counselling before she finally went through with it. My wife asked me afterwards would I go out with or even have sex with her either knowing or not knowing about her transition. I emphatically said no. She said you didn't even have to think about it nope, oh that because you already know so you have a preconceived prejudice. I said no Miss I had 2 semesters of psychology in college I'm simply not attracted to her, she does nothing for me , I could sit and have conversation with her for hours no problem but just like there are some women who do nothing for me she falls into that category. So be prepared for possible rejection is all I'm saying  but good luck in whatever you decide 

[Andrew]

8 minutes ago, Bob Long said:

I completely understand how you feel but just my two cents worth of unprofessional opinion would be before you make a giant irreversible leap why don't you try living as a woman by completely immersing yourself in the female experience by crossdressing and working on your feminine self, your hair, your makeup, your walk, your talk go buy yourself tons of lingerie, dresses blouses, skirts, shoes, boots you name it honey have fun  and when you have your confidence level high enough to go our in public give it a go. Go to gay clubs as I have found them to be the most non judgemental folks your going to encounter. One thing a long time gay friend of mine pointed out not all gay men are  into being with a crossdresser or person in transition they simply like men period. 

Its a giant leap so you need to first make very very sure that your ready for such a big step, we know a transgender no woman who told us she had to go through months of counselling before she finally went through with it. My wife asked me afterwards would I go out with or even have sex with her either knowing or not knowing about her transition. I emphatically said no. She said you didn't even have to think about it nope, oh that because you already know so you have a preconceived prejudice. I said no Miss I had 2 semesters of psychology in college I'm simply not attracted to her, she does nothing for me , I could sit and have conversation with her for hours no problem but just like there are some women who do nothing for me she falls into that category. So be prepared for possible rejection is all I'm saying  but good luck in whatever you decide 

I've been buying some lingerie, stockings, gowns, robes. I go to work with my man clothes, I kind of live in a conservative environment. When I get home, I put on the panties, robe, bras, everything. It feels liberating. I'm looking at dresses. I think men are hot and when I think of a man, I think about wanting to be that support system at home for him. That wife role. I would love to get married in a beautiful wedding dress to the man of my dreams. I would want to be an awesome wife. Thank you for your response. You made some good points. 

[Justasimp]

Well Andrew I must admit watching Transsexuals porn and seeing the likes of Danika and Hazel Tucker I wouldn't mind dating a TS woman with a dick. I'm just going to say if you think that's what's best for you go for it and I support you but just know having a dick doesn't make you less of a woman. That's a huge decision in life and take your time making the choice.

[Rio]

That's one of my biggest fantasies, bucket list, that I would like to experience someday. I find it so sexy

[Andrew]

My dreams, my wants, all have me pointing in the direction of female. I wish I could change my user name to a female name.