Members Femmebilly Posted May 8, 2022 Members Report Share Posted May 8, 2022 It seems like in this day and time. A lot of people are only into other people for sex. Seems like relationships are in the past. If I knew was going be like this when I was younger, should have just gone into gay porn. Lease be getting paid more for it. Then just be left in the dark. Sad thing is yes I have lot of sexting. But my toys are safer then someone lying to you or using you for sex. Plus sex toys are safer then catching something. Because some people lie about not having anything. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Open minded bi Posted June 10, 2022 Members Report Share Posted June 10, 2022 On 5/8/2022 at 11:22 AM, Femmebilly said: It seems like in this day and time. A lot of people are only into other people for sex. Seems like relationships are in the past. If I knew was going be like this when I was younger, should have just gone into gay porn. Lease be getting paid more for it. Then just be left in the dark. Sad thing is yes I have lot of sexting. But my toys are safer then someone lying to you or using you for sex. Plus sex toys are safer then catching something. Because some people lie about not having anything. Yes I agree with you about people lying about their sti status. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Excited Posted June 11, 2022 Members Report Share Posted June 11, 2022 To lust for someone is one thing. Then engaging is another. We live in a sex everything time. Just look at how young our education system is pushing all this sexuality on them. So yes this seems to be what people want. Relationships happen when both are looking for it. I would like finding one person to have sex with all the time but not a day to day relationship. I believe it is called a Fuck Buddy. I hope you find what you are looking for. Had my wife continued having sex with me. I never even would have found this forum. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Open minded bi Posted June 11, 2022 Members Report Share Posted June 11, 2022 8 hours ago, Excited said: To lust for someone is one thing. Then engaging is another. We live in a sex everything time. Just look at how young our education system is pushing all this sexuality on them. So yes this seems to be what people want. Relationships happen when both are looking for it. I would like finding one person to have sex with all the time but not a day to day relationship. I believe it is called a Fuck Buddy. I hope you find what you are looking for. Had my wife continued having sex with me. I never even would have found this forum. Well said 👍👍 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Pblo696 Posted November 22, 2022 Members Report Share Posted November 22, 2022 In my second and very disfunctional marriage I was looking for a FB. Im stuck between two worlds being bi but monogamous. But this marriage is the best ever and she doesnt mind pegging me! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted November 22, 2022 Report Share Posted November 22, 2022 On 5/8/2022 at 11:22 AM, Femmebilly said: It seems like in this day and time. A lot of people are only into other people for sex. Seems like relationships are in the past. If I knew was going be like this when I was younger, should have just gone into gay porn. Lease be getting paid more for it. Then just be left in the dark. Sad thing is yes I have lot of sexting. But my toys are safer then someone lying to you or using you for sex. Plus sex toys are safer then catching something. Because some people lie about not having anything. I felt this way when I started dating again, almost 10 yrs ago. I had been stood up, used, and taken for granted. Oh, and don't forget the random dick pics when I was really just looking for a real relationship. FYI, don't send random dick pics to women, they don't impress us. If that's what you think we're most interested in, you're wrong! LOL Everything is done online now, which is sooooo much more complex and complicated!! People can be whomever they want to be, including a fantasy "there's no way in hell" kinda person. I had 2 married people hit me up, then have their wives text me, saying *I* was hitting on THEIR man!! I would apologize, but let them know where I met them, and that they were the ones that hit on me, and that they would do well to rethink their relationship. LOL The first guy I really felt attracted to, had used a pic that was 15 yrs old, and then, every time we did something, he said I'd passed a test....I didn't know it was an exam. Then, after we slept together, he said that his ex had contacted him, and that he was going to try with her. And that, maybe, just maybe, he should have said something before we had had sex....I said, um, yeah, cuz THAT wouldn't have happened!! He asked what I thought of that. I told him that if they were an ex, they were for a reason, and I wasn't going to fight for him. That I knew I was worthy of someone that could want me for me and be loyal, and would SHOW they wanted me. I then left, and never contacted him again. And, he was 5 yrs older than I am! My GF and I met on a specific website for those with herpes, and so we didn't have to disclose. Both of us have always been honest with our statuses even before we met, with others. I never wanted to take that choice away from someone. The men I were with since my diagnosis never said no. LOL I always made them wear condoms though. It was nice that my GF and I have the same thing, and we can empathize when one of us gets an outbreak though. Dating to find love and not just a hookup, is a bitch...... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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