Newbie Doubledee Posted August 23, 2022 Newbie Report Share Posted August 23, 2022 My wife is stuck in 1960 when it comes to sex. Strait laced & never anything new. She will not watch any porn & anything other then me on top is unheard of. I need to mix things up to keep the fire going but any mention of trying new things & im considered a sick pervert. Its 2022 & things have changed, How can i get my bride to at least consider a few new things.? Toys, positions, time of day, oral, anul, etc. Please help me to introduce a couple ideas & somehow make her realize that sex today is not the same asit was when ward & june cleaver were doin it .. thanx. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members marka09 Posted August 23, 2022 Members Report Share Posted August 23, 2022 Well, Ward and June probably had some great sex and it probably wasn't just missionary. I had a much older friend who had shown me some photos he took of their sex lives and they had some great stuff. But as far as your question, there isn't much you can do if she isn't willing to try something. From what I read in your question, she wouldn't even be willing to go to a sex therapist. Perhaps you need to have a serious discussion with her. Or take her on a very romantic weekend trip and wine and dine her. As a photographer, I've had women come in to do boudoir shoot and end up doing erotic stuff, but it was their idea and they just followed through with it. They went outside of their comfort zone and enjoyed something that they never thought that they would do. Their husbands were pleased though! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members tiger48 Posted August 23, 2022 Members Report Share Posted August 23, 2022 5 hours ago, Doubledee said: My wife is stuck in 1960 when it comes to sex. Strait laced & never anything new. She will not watch any porn & anything other then me on top is unheard of. I need to mix things up to keep the fire going but any mention of trying new things & im considered a sick pervert. Its 2022 & things have changed, How can i get my bride to at least consider a few new things.? Toys, positions, time of day, oral, anul, etc. Please help me to introduce a couple ideas & somehow make her realize that sex today is not the same asit was when ward & june cleaver were doin it .. thanx. Sounds familiar. Bigger problem for me is that everything is in the past and there is nothing now except self pleasure. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members hunny bear Posted October 3, 2022 Members Report Share Posted October 3, 2022 On 8/23/2022 at 5:54 AM, Doubledee said: My wife is stuck in 1960 when it comes to sex. Strait laced & never anything new. She will not watch any porn & anything other then me on top is unheard of. I need to mix things up to keep the fire going but any mention of trying new things & im considered a sick pervert. Its 2022 & things have changed, How can i get my bride to at least consider a few new things.? Toys, positions, time of day, oral, anul, etc. Please help me to introduce a couple ideas & somehow make her realize that sex today is not the same asit was when ward & june cleaver were doin it .. thanx. My second wife was the same nothing but missionary, never finish oral not even jerking me off , liked oral on her though ,never would try anything new EVER 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members tiger48 Posted October 3, 2022 Members Report Share Posted October 3, 2022 6 minutes ago, hunny bear said: My second wife was the same nothing but missionary, never finish oral not even jerking me off , liked oral on her though ,never would try anything new EVER I feel the pain for both of you. None for me either Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members lislis Posted October 8, 2022 Members Report Share Posted October 8, 2022 Um idk how to help you, I've always been open to trying things. Lol I was the girl having sex during study hall in high school. My husband (now ex) asked if we could try anal we went to the toy store and bought anal ease and tried it. How do you know if you like it or not if you don't try it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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